Yesterday afternoon my wife and I were travelling in convoy on the A roads just past Salisbury plain, when a Pheasant flew into the windscreen of my wifes primera (she was behid me) she instinctivly swerved and collided with an oncoming car. Which resulted in her being fatally injured. My 4 year old son was in the back seat in his child seat, and was virtually unscathed. I ran back and pulled the window out shattering it and forced his door, I managed to release him and get him out and back to my car with his 7 year old sister. Then I and a first aider tried to keep my wife alive , but she was to badly injured and losing to much blood, she had stopped breathing as the emergency services arrived, She was unconcious throughout ,there was nothing we could have done. The driver of the other car was also killed and his wife was critical last night. I have lost my most precious companion and my greatest love but I am thankfull that my two children are still with me.

 

14/6/2005

 

Thank all of you for your kind words and offers of help, it is words like this that give me and my young ones strength. We sat and read many of your comments last night. So many of you I dont even know God bless you. The events of saturday I shall never forget, the people at Salisbury District hospital were so compassionate to my children and I and so supportive. At about 10.30pm we went to see Ruth in the chapple of rest and my children at least got to see her one more time before we came home. Th epolice have told me that the Lady in the other car came out of critical and is expected to make a full recovery Thank God. The police also passed on the other family wanted to say that thier thoughts and prayers were with us at this time - which is amazing considfering what they must be feeling.

at a loss for words, my deepest sympathy to you and your children

Our deepest sympathies Kenny, really sorry to hear about your loss :(

i have a lump in my throat at this present time,so sorry to read this such traggic news,thoughts with you and children at this time be strong,were all here for ya

As above....Thought's go out

so sorry to hear about your loss our thoughts are with you and your children take care bud

 

gary and caroline

No words, just thoughts and prayers. Take care.

 

Bob

We are here for mate and, im sure this goes for all of us, if any of us can do anything to help we'll be there for you.

 

Pete

:(

Not much anyone can say but all our thoughts are with you.

 

Mike

I'm soo soo sorry to hear this, Deepest sympathy to you and your kids. If there is anything we can do to help we will be there for you.

life can be cruel sometimes, am really sorry bud

cant imagine what u must be going through mate . Take care . Thoughts are with you.

My thoughts are with you and your children Kenny :(

So sorry to hear this Kenny :(

 

I cannot find any other words either, but my thoughts go out to you and your children - be strong for them mate.

 

Richard

Sorry mate dont know what to say but sorry to hear that. I know i dont know you but i feel gutted for your loss. all our prayers go out to you.

I really can't find words to say im sorry.

 

all our love, martin & debz

thats tragic news mate it really is,but you gorra try hold it together for your kids sake.

family and friends time here i think----my thoughts go out to you and the kids

Very sorry to hear that - my thoughts go out to you. :(

Such tragic news Kenny, you must be strong for your children and yourself. Take care of them and you. Deepest sympathy.

Terrible news, I am so sorry for you. I lost my own mum when I was 15 and let's face it, kids only get one mum and when she's gone, there's no replacing her, but the truth is, kids do adapt and though it's a very small bonus, my relationship with my Dad changed that day and has remained as strong and close as you could imagine ever since. You do have to stay strong for them, but most people will think more about the poor children than they will about you. There's no doubt that you face the toughest challenge - you have to carry on, without your partner, without anyone to share the joys and pains of parenthood, yet with the constant responsibility of carrying your kids broken hearts through the slow mending process.

 

I know how hard this is, I've lived through it and spent many hours talking about it with my Dad over the last 27 years. It never goes away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I wish you the strength you need to get through it. Keep your loved one close and show them how important they are to you and, somehow, you will manage.

 

God bless, and good luck.

Im so sorry mate, be strong for your kids. in our thoughts.

So very, very sorry to hear this trajic news Kenny. My thoughts are with you and your children.

 

Steve

:( .....Speechless mate,my deepest condoleces.

Really sorry to hear this, deepest sympathys to you mate

deepest sympathy matey.