i dont really know why im posting this up on here as i am fairly new to this forum and dont really even know you guys that well.. i just need somewhere to vent this.. so im sorry if this bores anyone lol!

 

well last night my my best friend of 10 years, girlfriend of 6 years and fiance of 2 years decided it was better off if we broke up.. didnt really give me much of a say in it .. just told me that she was sorry alot and that she didnt love me as anything other than a best friend.. i cant change that but my god it hurts.. i know i have to look on the positive side of things but.. packing all of my things this morning and returning to my mothers house is not something i ever thought i would be doing.. what makes it worse is get this my zed is off the road and my workmate borrowed the work van.. so not only did i have to pack my stuff but she had to drive me back... i realise everyone who has lost someone says at first that they where tho one blah blah so im not going to bore you with that speel .. but hey loosing a best friend and a woman who i thought i was spending the rest of my life with is ..well a real kick in the teeth.. it doesnt even leave me with more cash to spend on the z as now i have to try and pull my self together and try not to.. although i will go the way of stellaz and spend many a night in on the lager with the laptop on and youtube blaring!- anyways thanks for reading hope i aint ruined anyones day!

Im very sorry to hear that, with us lot dude it doesn't matter if you are a new or old member, we are the 300zx family you will never walk alone! Get your feet back on the ground first dude and decide were to go from there. If you need someone to talk to im here.

 

P.s you wont get many replies until tonight because everyone is at work

cheers mate means alot, yeah i guessed most people would be at work.. i should be but.. well i start in the early hours and as i said i had to move my stuff! haha its a funny old world!

cheers mate means alot, yeah i guessed most people would be at work.. i should be but.. well i start in the early hours and as i said i had to move my stuff! haha its a funny old world!

 

I only work nights currently so im free most of the time, still trying to find a full time job, its such a pain in the ass, everyone just keeps on you need experiance, but how the hell can i get exp if no company will take me on :( odd world indeed....

Dude thats a real shame, hurts eh :(

 

As everyone says, it will be ok. And it will, just got to push on up fella. :duffer:

I only work nights currently so im free most of the time, still trying to find a full time job, its such a pain in the ass, everyone just keeps on you need experiance, but how the hell can i get exp if no company will take me on :( odd world indeed....

 

aye it is indeed i would love to change profession but with the ecconomy the way it is .. just isnt worth the risk! what type of job are you after?

 

Dude thats a real shame, hurts eh :(

 

As everyone says, it will be ok. And it will, just got to push on up fella. :duffer:

 

yeah i know but i stupidly made her my life so i suppose the only good thing to come of it is that i get to start fresh! problem is .. push on up to my friends means "take me to the pub and feed me shots" :P :nana2:

problem is .. push on up to my friends means "take me to the pub and feed me shots" :P :nana2:

 

Problem???? :D:duffer:

Problem???? :D:duffer:

 

 

i have to get up at 4 everymorning and i have squat all moneys lol!

aye it is indeed i would love to change profession but with the ecconomy the way it is .. just isnt worth the risk! what type of job are you after?

 

 

Well finished college and all, came out with a national dimploma in ict networking (ict practitionors) so looking for jobs around ICT field, fed up with all these jobs saying the word "helpdesk" i refuse to sit on a phone all day you see lol.

never mind mate once you get back out on the scene you will find plenty more fish in the sea and may well be better off for it as its better now well your younger than after you get married have kids and a house to split ! chin up and come and spend the night in bristol with us southern boys LOL

never mind mate once you get back out on the scene you will find plenty more fish in the sea and may well be better off for it as its better now well your younger than after you get married have kids and a house to split ! chin up and come and spend the night in bristol with us southern boys LOL

 

Yep i think you should we will have a good laugh :) :dance:

ahh i see, i did ICT at college.. mainly as i wanted to get into web design.. got to the web design part of the course and i already new more than my teacher..the market for web design got smaller and smaller with everyone doing it diy so i dropped out and studied music.. that got me no where .. so im now a landscape gardener and have been for a few years.. never intended to stay doing it but i have the age old problem of not really knowing what i want to do! haha.. i can understand not sitting behind a desk tho its not really my cuppa tea either!

Well finished college and all, came out with a national dimploma in ict networking (ict practitionors) so looking for jobs around ICT field, fed up with all these jobs saying the word "helpdesk" i refuse to sit on a phone all day you see lol.

 

Beggers can't be choosers mate. I think you just need to get out there and get some experience in the field. You've even answered your own question! The rest will just slot into place. If ALL you guys came out of college with the same diplomas, chances are, you'll all be chasing the same jobs. Start with helpdesk as, once you're there, there will be many other doors opening up.

never mind mate once you get back out on the scene you will find plenty more fish in the sea and may well be better off for it as its better now well your younger than after you get married have kids and a house to split ! chin up and come and spend the night in bristol with us southern boys LOL

 

southern! you would only be southern if i lived in scotland! south central massive here mate! :D but no doubt you would destroy me haha.. though i have heard the women in bristol are quite fiesty!

The women in Bristol ain't that great mate! LOL, but that's the UK female population as a whole in general. Nicer women and far more classy in Bath.

The women in Bristol ain't that great mate! LOL, but that's the UK female population as a whole in general. Nicer women and far more classy in Bath.

 

Yea bath is like the rich lot, with there "amazing" history :cool:

haha! well my mate in bristol has been lying to me then! .. unless there has been a rapid growth in good looking women.. with some sort of brain .. i dont think i shall be stalking the streets just yet!

the university's are back now so there is no shortage of young blood getting drunk everywhere

the university's are back now so there is no shortage of young blood getting drunk everywhere

 

ha ha ha only problem with that is they think they can drink alot and you get the whole "i really :hurl: think you and :hurl:me should :hurl: get together :hurl:"

That's ok, who says you have to give them your real number!? LOL.

That's ok, who says you have to give them your real number!? LOL.

 

your bad:eek:

haha true true .. off the subject of teh opposite sex.. does anyone know if the Z centre do finance?

Nicer women and far more classy in Bath.

 

 

should that not be : far more classy IN the bath. :rofl:

haha true true .. off the subject of teh opposite sex.. does anyone know if the Z centre do finance?

 

 

no mate. luke doesnt do finance im afraid.

I dont think women are high on your list at the moment, sorry to hear what you are going thru, take each day as it comes and keep your chin up bud, like Murt said we are here if you need to chat:)

Sorry your feeling down bud, same thing happend to me but I got it by a text message.

Hope things pick up for you.

 

Allan