Well she has done it again after being back together for 8 months or so, this is the girl that i have been with about seven years! Last xmas we were going through a bad patch but managed to get through it dispite her telling me she had met someone ad was seeing him. This all fell through after about 2 months, and we were getting back together, and getting on well. My feelings were getting more involved and I fell back in love with her. She told me she had booked a holiday in Greece earlyer in the year and the date came around two weeks ago. She told me how much she loved me so many times over the last few months and things felt great. I Txt her on her holiday how much I loved her and how I missed her through out the two weeks. She said she would be back on The saturday so I rang her this morning to a rather cool and offputting Jane. Later today after many txts she told me she has met someone on holiday and wants to make ago of it!!

Needless to say I am apsolutely gobsmacked and realy beside myself :(

I dont need the it will be allright replys I just need to vent a bit so thanks for reading my boreing drivel.

I still cant belive what has happend today

 

Allan

vent anytime ya want bud, feel for ya

walk outside...

 

unlock the zed...

 

start it to let it warm up a little whilst you take the roofs off...

 

get in and rag the f**k out of it!

 

what better way to share/vent anger than with the zed!

 

chin up...

cheerz lads but the zed is at home and I am at the ski club, but i did go for a jump ski just after to calm the emmotions

Sorry to that mate,feel free to vent anytime u like, after all thats what we're here for :)

having the balls to come on here and tell all is the first step to getting your life back and living in a forward motion :duffer: ;) good luck mate

walk outside...

 

unlock the zed...

 

start it to let it warm up a little whilst you take the roofs off...

 

get in and rag the f**k out of it!

 

what better way to share/vent anger than with the zed!

 

chin up...

 

i know i'm a boring old fart but my advice is not to drive the zed when angry - they can bite and it only makes you feeel worse. get the mates together and go to the pub - drive the zed when you're feeling good and want to have some fun

 

sounds to me like she really doesnt know what she wants - time to move on mate - hard but got to be done

 

regards,

 

alex

you could always burn her clothes :)

Sorry to hear that bud..chin up :)

you could always burn her clothes :)

Or Her. :)

Sorry to hear your news bud, when it all goes t*ts up for

her again, and she starts dangling the carrot in your direction...

tell her to f*ck off.

I was in the same situation with my long term ex, she got with someone when we had a falling out once and it never recovered after that.

 

Rule of thumb is if they'd do that to you then they'll do it again and they obviously don't love you as much as you love them.

 

Hindsight is a brilliant thing though and i know it's hard not to go back when it seems they've changed their tune.

 

Best of luck for the future matey and i hope you find your happiness somewhere else now

 

Nick

Wise words there Nick ;)

 

Vijay

sorry to hear that bud ...BUT ...IMHO going back with a X will always end in pain ..... :headvswal

 

it's time you started,to have fun yourself.. :dance: :dance: :smash:

 

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sorry to hear alan ;(, chin up mate, you still have a widearse!

 

all the best

 

greg

They are all snakes with tits m8, sounds like you are well shot of her.

.......................Rule of thumb is if they'd do that to you then they'll do it again and they obviously don't love you as much as you love them.

 

Hindsight is a brilliant thing though and i know it's hard not to go back when it seems they've changed their tune..........................Nick

 

Some sound words there....

 

Bloody women.... :rolleyes:

 

All the bast mate!

 

Richard :)

I think she already knew this other guy and its him she went on holiday with and knew she was gonna dump you whilst she was on holiday, hence why she kept telling you she loved you prior to going it was to cover up her guilt and fool you in believing everything ok and throw you off the sent if you suspected anything, basically she was fooling you to belive everything is ok so she could put her plans into action.

 

Sounds to me she done you a favor if this is second time she done it, say to her fook ya get on with it, you done me a favor, i can get on with my life now! Your be suprised how much it gets rid of the anger. When it goes tits up for her best revenge is saying Boll0x to ya

Find a freind who is willing to pretend to be your new girl and then when she comes around to pick her stuff up make sure your freind is there.

 

Or better still get someone to walk out of the bedroom neckid when she is there, or when you are on the phone to her get a bird to say "are you comming back to bed hunny" so she hears

 

Or get someone to text her something like, I had a great time last night when can I see you again? Then ring her and appologise because you gave your new girl the wrong number by mistake.

I think she already knew this other guy and its him she went on holiday with and knew she was gonna dump you whilst she was on holiday, hence why she kept telling you she loved you prior to going it was to cover up her guilt and fool you in believing everything ok and throw you off the sent if you suspected anything, basically she was fooling you to belive everything is ok so she could put her plans into action.

 

Sounds to me she done you a favor if this is second time she done it, say to her fook ya get on with it, you done me a favor, i can get on with my life now! Your be suprised how much it gets rid of the anger. When it goes tits up for her best revenge is saying Boll0x to ya

 

Reckon he's right there.....

They are all snakes with tits m8, sounds like you are well shot of her.

 

we arent all the same you know!! :smash:

 

deffo best without her though, what goes around comes around, and when it all turns to shit and she comes running back because her new bit has done the same to her, just smack that door right in her face!

find another woman, infact go and find a handfull of women, don tpine after the serpant that as just left you, believe me mate she will be as pissed as you are when she finds out you are with somone else, gives you a warm feeling inside

we arent all the same you know!! :smash:

 

deffo best without her though, what goes around comes around, and when it all turns to shit and she comes running back because her new bit has done the same to her, just smack that door right in her face!

 

Here here :bow:

we arent all the same you know!! :smash:

 

deffo best without her though, what goes around comes around, and when it all turns to shit and she comes running back because her new bit has done the same to her, just smack that door right in her face!

 

 

hmmmm im yet to be convinced but I'll take your word for it :tongue:

mate been there done it and have the scars to prove .....you have to tell this woman to do one or else she will seriosly mess you up if she loved you she wouldnt even be looking for anyone else let alone meeting them she aint worth it bud i know its easy for all of us to say it'll get better or chin up but the truth is it wont till this lying cheating person is out of your life.....sending out some good thoughts to ya mate all the best

matty

Really sorry to hear that mate, sucks balls. Get some events down in your calender and keep busy. Just takes time..