I'm off the Amsterdam for a long weekend to celebrate just turing 30. :dance:

 

Should I propose to my girlfriend who is coming too?

 

I do like her a lot but I'm not 100% sure. I've been with her 8 years now!

 

Those of you who were married... were you totally sure it was the right thing to pop the question?

8 years seems like a long time dude.

 

If your asking us surely your less sure than you think!

 

But at the end of the day it aint down to us, its yours and her future.

 

YOU DECIDE!

If you have to ask us then the answer is "NO".

If you have to ask us then the answer is "NO".

To ture mate......

 

Craig :slap: for even asking the question mate.....as per quote.

If you have to ask us then the answer is "NO".

Just what i was thinking!!!!

 

But as a 1990's gameshow host said "The choice is yours"

 

Rich

 

P.S. I havent a fooking clue what gameshow it was so there, and im pi55ed. that is all

after 8 years youve found no one better so go for it, most marriages last less than that these days.

 

Besides everyone gets married twice so why not get the first one out the way!!! ;)

Been with misus 12 years since we were 16!

Got a house together about 3 and a half years ago

got a little lad who's 3

she would like to marry but whats the point??

I have told her I do not intend to marry her but she does want to wed someday (I think its just so she can wear the dress)

Your choice m8 but will she do a runner if you don't?

I bet you blert it out after a few beers!!

If you have to ask us then the answer is "NO".

 

Sorry SMW1, but bo11ox. If you've been with her for 8 years that says something. My brother just asked his bird after 7 years and I'm sure he had doubts. My other brother only asked after he saw her (married) initials on a car reg, don't ask. I've been with my girl for 5 years and I know we will get married and I'll ask her soon. Doesn't stop me wondering what if.

 

Go for it, if it all goes t1t5 then Tesco's do a quicky devorce kit for £7.50.

Taking a 'packed lunch' to Amsterdam???!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: NO!NO!NO! You've missed the point of going! ;)

 

Oh, and if you have to ask, then NO again. Would have thought you'd worked it out after 8 years! :rolleyes:

 

If after all that time you are still not sure, then there HAS to be a reason why you're reluctant. Still, what do I know, I'm 36 and am still single. But at least I'm not wearing a "shit-eating" grin pretending the whining, lying, sprog producing wallet emptier makes me happy! :)

 

My 2p

 

[\agonyaunt]

I did not not really have a choice she booked it up I turned up

all of this if you have questions don't do it is b8llocks only two things a certain death and taxes. you might as well have a good guess and bear the consequences of your choice

the proof of the pudding is in the eating so to speak

good luck either way

Having a joint mortgage is scarier than marriage IMO, and its probably harder to get out of lol.

 

Theres no difference really, and you get the greatest day ever - everyone buys you drinks :D:D

Sorry SMW1, but bo11ox.

 

Don't hold back mate :rofl: ;)

Don't hold back mate :rofl: ;)

 

PMSL, nice one :D

I do like her a lot but I'm not 100% sure. I've been with her 8 years now!

 

You use the word like and not love?!.

 

But if you have been with her for eight years it's gotta say something eh :)

 

Good luck with what ever you decide matey ;)

Don't hold back mate :rofl: ;)

 

Glad you took it in good humour, I've been force fed (kind of) fizzy white wine. It's just like Stella, I've beaten the Misses to a pulp tonight and killed the cat.

Just get engaged then it keeps her happy and you can still do a runner if you need to ;)

Sound in the voice of Les Dennis of Family Fortunes!

 

Our survey said "___,___"

hi guys, long time no see

 

I think it is exceptionally romantic, personally i feel if you have been together for eight years then you should, you could not possibly with someone that long if you do not love her. i have only been with Leigh (friday)for six months but i know it is right.

 

darlin she will be blown away :hyper: , plus if you have been thinking about it then you must want to as the thought would not have even entered your head.:)

Sound in the voice of Les Dennis of Family Fortunes!

 

Our survey said "___,___"

 

neeeeeea-eaaa! ;)

 

Marriage/kids debacle defined in one sentence

 

Simultaneously the Best and Worst thing to ever happen to you! :mac1:

If you have been with her for 8 years. MArry the woman.

If your worried about getting devorced, your thinking about the wrong bloody thing.

If your thinking the grass is greener on the other side, mate at 30 its not green anymore its all hay.

 

Will be the best 4 words you ever say.

if you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her then ask her,

 

otherwise don't

for those who say yes....are they allowed to the reception?..

If your thinking the grass is greener on the other side, mate at 30 its not green anymore its all hay.

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:rofl:

After reading this post when you put it up, and trying to resist it, sod-it, I'll give my 2p worth :D;)

 

I was with my, then, girlfriend for two years before I asked her to marry me, and it was another two years before we got married .................................... Oh! I remember it like it was yesterday.................................. And yesterday was a really sh1ty day as well :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

 

(Only joking :x: )

 

If you feel its what you wana do, do it.

 

If your not too sure, then give it a bit longer.

 

Loads of people can give different advise, but you've got to go with what YOU feel.

 

Either way, good luck to you.

 

BTW I'm getting divorced :D

I'm off the Amsterdam for a long weekend to celebrate just turing 30. :dance:

 

Should I propose to my girlfriend who is coming too?

 

I do like her a lot but I'm not 100% sure. I've been with her 8 years now!

 

Those of you who were married... were you totally sure it was the right thing to pop the question?

 

Listen Good

 

I've been married 21 years in August and for the first 15 it was great, but I would advise nobody to get married. If you stay together because you what to then thats cool. Once the ring goes on the finger it all changes.

 

The ring was a symbol of servitude in Rome and bound whom ever wore it to its master. Thus we gave women who were the chattals of men a ring and therefor bound them to the man as his property.

 

Now somewhere since 1920 the women have reverst the roles on certain things including the rights of ownership. MOST IMPORTANTLY THOUGH IS THE FACT THAT THEY HAVE THE LAW ON THERE SIDE. If you get married you will be screwd for the rest of your life. Prostitutes are much sheeper and do it how you like when you like.

 

DON'T DO IT MAN. IT WILL SPOIL YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND ENPTY YOUR BANK ACCOUNT PERMENANTLY. No more Amsterdam celibrations.

Go for it Craig, you never know...she might turn you down! :x:

Have been there, done it & got the t-shirt. It's easy gettin'

married, it's gettin' out of it thats hard!!

Try her mate, see what she says. It's a good day out for all

the family.

Are we all invited if she accepts? :duffer: :duffer: