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I've asked myself all of the above and came up with the same answer! DONT KNOW And I'm not blaming myself for his stupidity and ignorance, I know I am worth more and deserve better, as for the magnetic hold I'd say that's love, I love him with all my heart (wouldn't have married him if I didn't). I've asked him outright and nothing is going on and he didn't want to tell me cos I'm a jealous psycho bitch!! (His words) and he didn't want to hurt my feelings, altho it feels like my heart has been ripped out as I forgot to mention earlier, we had a drunken disagreement on the way home from the pub couple of months back and he never came home all night found him eventually the next morning on the gym buddies sofa!!!!!!! And there's a wonder why I'm like I am lol

Thanks guys! I knew I could count on you lot to help :) :) :) x x x

I found therapy tonight its in the shape of a can of beer well several actually lol

I know what your saying and yes I think my marriage is worth it hence why he's still here and not back at his parents house! I think its more me being jealous that is the problem how do I get over that?? I've worked out that the reason I feel like I do is that he makes me feel WOW!! ( I know pass the bucket) but I can't bare him making someone else feel like that I want that all for myself and he is a bit of a ladies man and just has a way with women, just wanna say thanks to you all for listening to me rant made me feel a lot better!!

We've done the talking (me screaming/crying/swearing) and as far as it goes nothing is going to change he is still going to go gym with this bird! And I've got to put up and shut up or call it quits!!! I don't want my marriage to end so I've got to put up with it whilst trying to get over the fact my husband has lied to me and hid things from me! I'm coming back as a bloke when I die!!!!!!

I do trust him but why lie? Why hide it for 2 months and then tell me to get over it!! He knows I'm jealous and insecure so surely if you know this about someone you wouldn't make them feel it even more you would reassure them, wouldn't you????

No I haven't lol. I just saw a message on the hubbys phone which he was quick to snatch away from me I might add and it said about them meeting at the gym so he then had to admit that they've been going to the gym together for 2 months but didn't want to tell me to save my feelings and he knew I'd react!

Female!!!! She's a so called friend of us both and they've been gym buddies for 2 months and I only found out because of a message on his phone!!

Does anyone else turn into a greeneyed monster when it comes to their husbands/wives/partners??? Found out yesterday by accident my husband has a gym buddy!!!!!!!! To say I'm not best pleased is an understatement and I'm the first to admit I'm a jealous biatch!! Just want to know would anyone else turn into the green eyed monster or is it just me over reacting????

Lots of snow here poxy stuff, I'm hoping its not going to be to bad by the morning as I've got work :( I'm hoping whoever forecasted 10" was a bloke and it means we'll really getting 3" lol

Lots of snow here poxy stuff, I'm hoping its not going to be to bad by the morning as I've got work :( I'm hoping whoever forecasted 10" was a bloke and it means we'll really getting 3" lol

I failed!!!!! But then I'm always getting my left and right mixed up lol

thanks guys xx

The company have put me up for my ADR licence, thought it'd be handy to have under my belt but OMG how bloody boring and its only day 1!!! We watched a projector screen and they showed a picture of an accident that had involved A chemical spillage and this poor nurse who was just passing pulled over to help and the driver was in his cab with the windows shut because of the fumes from the spill was banging on the window trying to tell her to stay away but she thought he needed help so waded through what she thought was water and the fumes made her go unconscious and she fell into the spillage and the picture was graphic, made me think is it really worth and extra £6.50 a day. Well still got 3 days of it so I'm hoping it goes quick.

I'm always horny!!! The hubby just can't keep up!!! Lol

Make that 2 lonely buggers!!!!! Lol

Seen it twice, was quite good and a few funny bits I'd like to say I watch it for the cars but vin diesel and the rock mmmmmmmmmmmmm I was dribbling in my popcorn lol

Your not the only one without a z stells :( but I will have my own one day!!!! I must agree that this forum has a great atmosphere and some cracking people too :)

I could do with one of those keep me occupied while I'm held up at the olympic holding bay!! Wonder what response I'll get if I ask the boss lol

I know where I'd like to stick a sharp knife....................... In my ex lol

Yeah I reckon that would be it!!!! Lol

First time I cooked for the other half I wanted to make an impression so I cooked him steak and chips, well it obviously worked cos now we're married but I don't do a lot of cooking now he does!!!!! Maybe it wasn't my cooking that made him stay ;) lol

That's cos I have been doing my wifey duties ;) but I have been here YOU just haven't seen ME!!!!!!!!!

No vods you are def YOU!! there is no other like YOU and YOU will always be YOU lol

no I am me!!! your you!!! lol