NicciZ

Love this forum to pieces :) don't get on here much but I know when I need to rant, need a pick up or advice I know I can count on you guys to help :D

Oh dear larner road!!! I lived there for a few years and now am more on the borders of slade green by the marsh about 700 yds from the corner pin pub mmmm my favourite place lol

Thanks again guys, I'm def gonna get me a zx soon as I've got enough pennies! As for men (no offence you lot) am never getting into a relationship again men are too much hard work! I'm gonna find me a friend with benefits!!! ;)

So whens the next JAE??? Lol I'm going to save my pennies I just worry if anything goes wrong who's gonna fix it?? X And they are proper pulling machines lol I need to get me one asap lol

I think I know what I've got to do and it scares me a bit cos its so final! I know there's plenty more fish in the sea but who wants to go out with a fish??? Lol all jokes aside I know I can do better I'm not past it yet so I'm going to look for my Mr Grey :)

Just don't let on to her at any time that you know where she's been etc cos then phone will just end up with a friend or switched off!! I'm a girl we know these things esp how to escape the watchful eye of a parent :) not that I was bad cos I wasn't I was an angel lol

Thanks guys, I had started to move on and even went on a couple of dates one of which was great until I found out he was a player and the toher one omg won't even go there lol but the **** won't leave me alone I've even had him on the phone at 6am this morning telling me he's finished it with her (I think she did him cos she found out he was doing the pair of us) (obv not at the same time lol) and that he's sorry and he wants to make it up to me etc etc. I just want to get on with my life but he's proper messing with my head! Daz I'm moving to southport lol just so I get a ride in the zed lol x

I've already been searching for a zed, always said I'd get one again and now I'm going to make it my goal! Thanks for listening its helped a lot :) still cantt sleep tho lol

He was already out just told him I don't want anything to do with him as I could never forgive what he's done to me and he still carried on telling me he loved me and wanted his wife back but he's still sleeping with her and she doesn't well didn't know about him coming here but she does now!!!! He denied it to her of course and said that I wasn't to say anything so I asked him did he want tto keep his wife a dirty litttle secret so he could have a relationship with her and he said yeah! So I told her everything in a message and I've got the texts to prove it all but down to them now, but I'm hurting so much and everytime I try and sleep I just see them and hear all the crap he's come out with

He left me 3 months ago and the last 4 weeks he's been begging me to have him back! Well this morning he rung me and asked if he could take me out at the weekend so we could talk I said we'd see, he then quizzed me about anybody I'd seen while with been apart and I told him hadn't been with anyone (which I haven't) so I asked him the same question and he said yeh got it out of him its was the gym buddy and throughout the day his lies have been unfolding and turns out he's been seeing her for 3 weeks but he's been coming round here within that time trying to rekindle things shall we say! I'm absolutely gutted!

Got it thanks, don't think I could talk to anyone at the moment just keep sobbing. But thankyou

Everything :( Found out today that my husband has been sleeping with his gym buddy after all!

Had a real crap few weeks and everytime I think its getting better WHAM!!! Something else knocks me down! Need cheering up guys plz :(

I had one of those altho it didn't run on veg oil but it was the nuts best motor I've ever had!!

Can't do pics but I assure you I am all woman!!! lol

Again can't agree I'd rather have the sex than facebook!! But I've yet to find a man who can keep up with my sex drive!! Lol

Actions speak louder than little smiley faces lol and I am after an action man lol

I'm not going to do that might get myself banned lol Groover I beg to differ - men who make a big deal about their wheels are compensating for something lol

Last time I looked was definately female! Haven't got a 300 anymore the ex took it when he left but I have vowed to myself that. I will own one again some day cos that car was one awesome ride!!! :)

Nicci holmes - feel free to add me I couldn't get on with twitter

No I do not have an action man but I'm open to offers!! lol

i remember the days of the chat room lol had some very drunken laughs in there and i think i left my hat in there too lol

Thanks :) Its a difficult situation and the gym buddy is aware that I'm not happy with it as my hubby told her not to mention it to me as I wouldn't be happy about it!! Which she has gone along with, she also drinks in our local boozer so I've been socializing with the pair of them and been none the wiser!! He said they give each other motivation at the gym (which is fine) he also said that they talk about each others problems (which is not fine) the way I see it if he has a problem shouldn't I be the one he comes to?? I've told him all this before anyone asks but his response is still the same he is still going to go gym with her and he doesn't want to hear any snide comments about her because she's done nothing wrong!!! Mmmmm they both lied and betrayed me so in my eyes that's wrong or am I over reacting?? I would love to go to the gym but I don't have time, I'm a driver and I work all different hours so by the time I've finshed work I have to then get home and do the housework, keep the kids in line so really going to the gym is not an option for me and plus can't really afford for both of us to be joint to a gym!!

Thanks for all of your comments, I don't normally air my laundry on a forum but in the past this forum has been a god send and altho I'm not a member anymore I still feel part of the crew and I'm trying to get my head around the fact I've been lied to by the one person I thought I could trust the most and reading other peoples views male and female does help! So thanks again :)

I have just found out he has a gym buddy the same gym buddy who's sofa he slept on!!!