This isn't to throw scorn on anyone in this situation. But as I'm getting older (I know this is obvious, but just an observation) the amount of single mothers out there is unbelievable.

 

Got a few girls interested in me at the moment and they both have kids and any I do try to get to know also have kids.

 

I don't have kids myself and never will. Just find it really wierd.

sometimes to get a good woman you have to take the calf aswell as the cow,theres nothing wrong with stepkids as long as they stay out my way and dont eat the last custard cream. how do i know, i have 3 daughters of my own the elderst being 25 and at the moment a stepdaughter and they all get treated the same

Single mums with kids a problem???

 

Just wait until grandmothers with false teeth start to take interest in ya :headvswal

 

Mind you,,, a BJ with the teeth out cant be such a bad thing,,, as long as you dont look at the gnashers placed by ya balls :(

But as said by Pete about being a father. Its the best thing life could have brought. My son was born in 1986 when I was 28 yrs old. OK in many ways a bit late but it works well. He has become my very best friend in life and thats a wonderful extra to have with your offspring. He keeps me on my toes with up-to-date things that are going on and has made my life 100% better since he was born. Dont let yourself down fella. As for single parents. thats the fault of modern society.

 

 

totally agree, my daughter has just turned one and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Its so rewarding watching them grow up and learn new things each day

my daughter has just turned one and she is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Kids are great,,,, I got 3 Daughters 21, 17 & 11 years,,, keeping you on your toes is SPOT ON buddy.

But just wait until shes 16 :headvswal You will become a ballet dancer by then :shock:

 

I would have liked a son,, but all i got was a load of dick-head boyfriends :xxx:

As already said - there's nowt wrong with Kids - I'm married - but no kids - and not likely to have any either - but we have friends with kids - we're Godparents to some - so we still get all the fun - kiddy days out and stuff - swimming - cinema etc - and we get to hand them back at the end of it !

 

They don't fit very well in the back of a 2+2 though !

 

 

I am a single parent, have been a long time (my daughter is 17 today), I'm very proud of myself.

I never set out to be a single parent I've always worked and looked after my kids

One perk of being a single parent, if you have a absent yet loving dad, I get whole weekends off and some holidays, while my kids go see their dad.

 

My kids understand that we live apart yet we are still good friends and the kids have a great time at Christmas with his family then at home with me.

 

Yes there will be parents who don't split amicably and the kids have a really hard time with it. A lot of it has to do with resentment and anger that has never been dealt with by immature parents.

 

I've owned a zed for 3 and half years and my kids fit in the back ( I have slim kids) been to scotland with 2 kids loads of luggage and a boyfriend in the zed, so it is possible

 

If you don't like being around kids, look elsewhere as you get older it might be harder to find a single woman who doesn't have kids

You might like it, to hang out with some kids and their mum's they are really cool, others are total brats (it's amazing what some love and affection can do though)

 

At the end of the day it's your choice :)

You probably find that its not always there fault. Some blokes just told them all they wanna hear just to get a quick S**G AND and then has just done one once he's got what he wanted, Be honest, weve all been there at some point.

I'm not saying it's anyone's fault. I'm just merely stating a situation. I am not throwing scorn on it at all as said in my first post.:)

 

I for one, just do not want to be a father/step father/father figure and just notice that as I get older, single childless women are becoming few and far between.

Just don't start hanging around schools!

I for one, just do not want to be a father/step father/father figure

 

You never know, you might get to like the kids. I've been out with girls with kids & generally found that I get on with the kids better than the girl :headvswal Lol.

 

I used to think like you but not any more.

 

One thing that isn't easy is when the real father turns up & the kids start shouting 'daddy daddy', kind of makes you feel shit for a while!

I notice that as I get older, single childless women are becoming few and far between.

That's nonsense and you know it. Where are you going to find these these girls Si? Gala-fooking-Bingo!! :tongue: and anyway who says you've got to go out with someone your own age? Stop worrying and we'll sort out going for a :duffer: soon

I take it the bar maid/waitress never phoned then?

Some men are total assholes how they leave a partner in the shit with there kid - had to get that off my chest.

 

I have dated women with kids before. I understood i came 2nd after the kids but still had a great time. How the kids were was a reflection on the mother. If the mother knew how to give lots of love and the right discipline the kids were fine.

The kids of one women i dated were hilarious. Its amazing how kids see things that us adults have become oblivious too.

 

I whore myself on http://www.loopylove.com. A mixed bag of women for sure but there are some gems on there.

I'm not saying it's anyone's fault. I'm just merely stating a situation. I am not throwing scorn on it at all as said in my first post.:)

 

I for one, just do not want to be a father/step father/father figure and just notice that as I get older, single childless women are becoming few and far between.

 

I know what you are saying Si.....

 

.....and I'm married :tongue:

 

Seriously though, when I was last single (10 years ago now, and I'm 36 in 2 weeks) I was beginning to think the same thing (Quite a few girls I met back then had kids and I was not interested in that either). However the reality is, there are plenty of single "nice" girls out there without them. Maybe you shouldn't look too hard. I wasn't looking for anyone at all and I just met Julia by chance; we just got chatting one lunch time and I didn't even notice she was stunning...............

 

.......until we met up for our first proper date. The rest is history :dance: .

 

Good luck mate

 

Richard :)

This isn't to throw scorn on anyone in this situation. But as I'm getting older (I know this is obvious, but just an observation) the amount of single mothers out there is unbelievable.

 

Got a few girls interested in me at the moment and they both have kids and any I do try to get to know also have kids.

 

I don't have kids myself and never will. Just find it really wierd.

Have a look at my recently posted threads mate, i would advize stay away!! Again like you im not tarnishing everyone with the same brush but i wouldnt go there again!

Yea there are alot of those over here, I mean alot!!!!!! Tons and tons! I don't want any kids either Simon, I know the feeling!

Yea there are alot of those over here, I mean alot!!!!!! Tons and tons! I don't want any kids either Simon, I know the feeling!

funny that si,lil pinky follows your heart,and your going to the states 2+2 together

 

send me the cheque later mate :tongue:

Some interesting stats on lone mothers here:-

 

http://www.jrf.org.uk/knowledge/findings/socialpolicy/SP84.asp