...*$ !!!!!

 

My ex mrs is thinking of trying to have me done for harrasment and stalking :shock: !! When i moved out of the flat, there was still an account with ntl for telephone / internet / tv and it took me nearly 2 weeks of calling / texting / emailing to get the account details off her.

 

She also posted a load of shit about me on the mother and baby forum, which i (although i shouldnt have) put right by editing her posts.

 

Now she is accusing me of changing all her passwords, accessing her computer and her files and of not leaving her alone !! I have emailed her earlier as I have heard about the rumours of her making me out to be a stalker, and got a load of abuse back. Also my last bank statement went to the flat and this weekend a couple of purchases were made using my account details...... so i asked her (certainly did NOT accuse her) about it.

 

Now she is 'considering' going to the authorities about me harrassing her?!?!?! What do I do? I suppose I either get a solicitor much better than one she can afford (although i cant really afford it myself) or do i just wait and see what happens?

 

Am i right in thinking that digital media such as msn chatlogs and hotmail printouts are not admissable in court due to them being very easily modified prior to printing out?

 

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

 

Thanks

 

Ben

Cut your losses and leave her alone before it gets uglier than it is. Report the account transactions to the bank and the police to cover yourself.

 

Find a new bird end of

I think it's "hot crack pipe on the soles of the feet" time.

I think you should speak to IndianZX mate. LOL

Definately do your best to keep things as smooth and quiet as possible, I know of two friends that split from their wives / partners and things turned really nasty with court cases and accusations of harrasment and physical abuse. Just turn a blind eye to any comments try not to argue about anything and after a while (read about 10 years) things might get easier.

Thanks for the info guys, will keep is smooth!!

Speaking from experience mate, keep ya gob shut, turn

around & walk away!

If you do need to go around there for whatever reason, take

someone with you, someone you could call on to back up

what you say, should things get nasty.

If she's making accusations, then she needs to have proof

to back up her accusations.

Nice to have you back bud.

 

I really do think that 95% of woman are complete ass holes! But as above, keep quiet, walk away and move on. Show that it doesnt bother you.

I will give you my opinion when we speak mate. But you aint getting bad advice from this lot Ben. take it and forget the whole thing. I think you are better off now anyway.

 

Vince

cut her up and boil her....................then eat her......

I think it's "hot crack pipe on the soles of the feet" time.

 

 

PMSL...yeah..burn baby burn... :smash:

...*$ !!!!!

 

My ex mrs is thinking of trying to have me done for harrasment and stalking :shock: !! When i moved out of the flat, there was still an account with ntl for telephone / internet / tv and it took me nearly 2 weeks of calling / texting / emailing to get the account details off her.

 

She also posted a load of shit about me on the mother and baby forum, which i (although i shouldnt have) put right by editing her posts.

 

Now she is accusing me of changing all her passwords, accessing her computer and her files and of not leaving her alone !! I have emailed her earlier as I have heard about the rumours of her making me out to be a stalker, and got a load of abuse back. Also my last bank statement went to the flat and this weekend a couple of purchases were made using my account details...... so i asked her (certainly did NOT accuse her) about it.

 

Now she is 'considering' going to the authorities about me harrassing her?!?!?! What do I do? I suppose I either get a solicitor much better than one she can afford (although i cant really afford it myself) or do i just wait and see what happens?

 

Am i right in thinking that digital media such as msn chatlogs and hotmail printouts are not admissable in court due to them being very easily modified prior to printing out?

 

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

 

Thanks

 

Ben

Its a difficult situation but solicitors some times make it worse !!

The only perso who wins when a solicitor is involved 9 times out of 10 is a solicitor as they get the money for letting you to bitch about each other in a legal controlled way. Try to get some one mutual and impartial to mediate for both of you.

Failing that i like to go into someones house and sprinkle water cress seeds around the skirting boards on the carpet and spray with a little water.

Sit back and wait for the crop its fooking lovely it just keeps comming back.

Childish and petty but i love it. :wack:

Speaking from experience mate, keep ya gob shut, turn

around & walk away!

If you do need to go around there for whatever reason, take

someone with you, someone you could call on to back up

what you say, should things get nasty.

If she's making accusations, then she needs to have proof

to back up her accusations.

 

This is sound advice Astra - don't rise to what she throws at you.

 

I know it's hard and you want your say but just ignore it and walk away. She'll calm down, won't bother having you charged and may eventually let you have access to your kid.

 

Getting lawyers involved at present will only aggravate the situation.

 

Good luck mate

 

Richard :)

Thanks so much for the advice guys! I think i am going to go with the concensus and cut my losses, and walk away!! TBH i want her out my life and vice versa but she seems intent on dragging it out. Anyway if it does come to the crunch i think i will destroy her in court, she is so naive and although i cant afford a particularly good one, i can afford a solicitor which is a step above legal aid. Im gonna walk away but if it does all kick off i am going to make an example of her i think !!

Its a difficult situation but solicitors some times make it worse !!

The only perso who wins when a solicitor is involved 9 times out of 10 is a solicitor as they get the money for letting you to bitch about each other in a legal controlled way. Try to get some one mutual and impartial to mediate for both of you.

Failing that i like to go into someones house and sprinkle water cress seeds around the skirting boards on the carpet and spray with a little water.

Sit back and wait for the crop its fooking lovely it just keeps comming back.

Childish and petty but i love it. :wack:

 

Then put a sheep in the room and leave it for 3 weeks!

Thanks for the info guys, will keep is smooth!!

 

Good call it's the only way for you & at the end of the day you must moove one & stay sain. Back off don't push it even if you want to. Now is not the time to proove a point your time will come 7 when it does you will not want to. IMHO