after living on my own for 9 months or so after splitting up with my mrs of 16yrs, i have met someone who i have been seeing for about 4 months now.

we get on really well & was happy with the way things were - she has her own house, i have mine!

 

last night i agreed to move in with her :x: :nelson: :eek:

 

getting nervous now! what do you think?????????

ps - it will prob mean i'll be better off & have more money to mod me zed!! :D :D :D

ps - it will prob mean i'll be better off & have more money to mod me zed!! :D :D :D

Got to be a fairly good reason then ;)

Take a chance, what have you got to loose

Go for it, but keep your own house and rent it out.

 

Barry

as above rent yours out so you have a get out clause.....4months isnt a long time to have known someone but if you thinks its right then go with your instinct

^^ What they said but

 

Dont rent it out on your own! Get an agency to deal with it :)

mines rented! ;)

Paul

 

IMHO mate but 4 months is too soon.....I have a golden rule now after living with about 4 diff women, give it at least a year to get to know her better, then re-evaluate....

 

IMHO of course.....

 

I am seeing someone new, just over 2 months now, and its going really well, I havent told her I love her yet even though I do, its all too soon mate for any housey/lovey stuff.....

 

And yeah I know, falling for her after 2 months, thats how well its going.....after being hurt, I guess I am protective over my ass.... :o

Sod it lifes to short for messing about

if you wanted simple you wouldn't have a zed

Do it but if you can keep a get out of jail free card then do

IMHO

Mate of mines just done the same, fair play to him and you, lifes too short, you can always rent another house should you need to!

To quote (can't remeber who said it though) 'Life is not too short, it's the longest thing anyone can do'

 

Sorry, but go for it if you know it's right, I'm in the same boat at the mo !

To quote (can't remeber who said it though) 'Life is not too short, it's the longest thing anyone can do'

 

Sorry, but go for it if you know it's right, I'm in the same boat at the mo !

 

useless bit of info - before my mum remarried i had the same name as you :)

 

im gonna go for it - already decided that really! havnt got much to loose really! as said, if it doesnt work i'll just rent another place :)

 

only downside is she lives a little further than id like to be from my daughter :(

 

 

just a bit nervous i guess :smw:

if you wanted simple you wouldn't have a zed

 

hehe so true! :) nice quote/advice hehe

 

-v-

I know youve already said your doing it and i think your making the right choice!!

 

Put as much of the past behind you as you can!! I've done it before (albeit 10 years ago) and i know i made the right decision.

 

Shame your a bit futher from your daugther, but hey, few more miles in the Z going over to see her wont matter will it :D

 

All the very best bud

ps - it will prob mean i'll be better off & have more money to mod me zed!! :D :D :D

Sounds like a good plan mate.

If it all goes tits up, you can always chuck her out :D :D :D

Or failing that, take her for half of it.

Sounds like a good plan mate.

If it all goes tits up, you can always chuck her out :D :D :D

Or failing that, take her for half of it.

 

PMSL!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

yeah...move in...a positive cosy benefit for those dark winter nights....have kids...buy a dog...shop at waitrose...enjoy strictly come dancing....listen to radio 4....

:D

PAUL.. Follow your heart buddy. Dont try too hard just enjoy each other and see how it goes. Congratulations mate and I wish you both all the best. :bow:

 

Vince

Go for it you will never know if you dont try, but remember having to put up with a woman 24 hours a day is a lot different to just shagging them LOL ;)

 

I mean what do you do with the other 23 hours 55 minutes

Go for it you will never know if you dont try, but remember having to put up with a woman 24 hours a day is a lot different to just shagging them LOL ;)

 

I mean what do you do with the other 23 hours 55 minutes

 

apologise :x:

lifes to short the only way to see if it will work is to do it, if you dont try you will only regret not trying.

 

im still in mourning for not bringin that lambo home with me.. i kik myself all the time... too many regrets.. to many wasted chances.. things happen for a reason but talk it through with each other and set boundries if needed, but at the end of the day, if your happy and it feels right then thats all that matters, its your happiness here not ours, it can only be your decision..

 

if you need our help then you cant be sure in yourself and in that case is she the right woman for you anyway? you should know yourself without asking anyof us!

useless bit of info - before my mum remarried i had the same name as you :)

 

im gonna go for it - already decided that really! havnt got much to loose really! as said, if it doesnt work i'll just rent another place :)

 

only downside is she lives a little further than id like to be from my daughter :(

 

 

just a bit nervous i guess :smw:

 

Go for it, if she turns out to be a B***........You can dump her.

follow your heart and not our advice we all as friends want the best for you

You'll get a pile more Shaggin go for it !!! .. "What I cana help being Scottish" :)

mines rented! ;)

 

 

Car house or girlfriend? :rofl: ;)