many of you gave me fantastic advice when i finished with my ex

 

im trying really hard to move on and kinda getting my life together

 

i have been on a dating site for about a year now and just lastnight found that my ex is on there too

 

is it better for me to come off there

 

what do you think? really sorry to be sad and ask guys :angel:

TBH, yes it's sad!-that said, stay on the site.Obviously the Ex is looking,So can you! Don't let it bother you!:wink:

I wouldn't let her put you off tbh.

Yeah! Girlie point of view. You've been on there a year. I'm sure you can avoid each other.

If it bothers you with her on there, why not see if you can block her from seeing your profile.

That way she cant see you on there and you dont see her, thus eliminating any potential problems from constantly seeing each others profiles.

I have a mate that uses dating sites,its the only time he gets to meet women 'cos of his busy workload.We took the p*ss at first,but hes happy an hes meeting some decent women on there(not the ugly munters i expected lol)Online dating is no big deal,ive used facebo*k help me score which is kinda online..haha

Stay on it mate,why leave just 'cos your ex's on it?

Thnks again guys, god i hate being a damn drama queen but the advice i get here is always uplifting,

ok so im staying on the site i have hidden my profile so she cant see it,

it wasnt the fact that she was looking fior dates on there it was seeing her face again that hurt,

saying that i really need to get out of this rut dont i, tried all the proffessional help counceling, nlp, hypnotherapy any good ideas for me to try? wil give anything a go within reason LOL

by the looks of it you dont need to TRY anything new, you are slowly moving on (joining dating site etc) Just give it time mate, it will all fall in to place .... all the best

Top advice already. Also, you're not a drama queen for asking, all your doing is getting other opinions on your situation :)

I'm sure you can be grown up about it and just click on the next page (or whatever you do :) ). It's like if you were to pass each other in the street, you wouldn't turn and walk in another direction. I can understand that everyone has their own reasons, but after a year or more, your initial break-up pain should be gone now.

 

But good luck with your search :)

Id been single for ages,then last november i met the most amazing woman,,had spoke to her before in my local,but this time actually asked her for her number,everything clicked and its been the best time of my life since,good luck in your search for happyness,it is out there.

Thnks again guys, god i hate being a damn drama queen but the advice i get here is always uplifting,

ok so im staying on the site i have hidden my profile so she cant see it,

it wasnt the fact that she was looking fior dates on there it was seeing her face again that hurt, saying that i really need to get out of this rut dont i, tried all the proffessional help counceling, nlp, hypnotherapy any good ideas for me to try? wil give anything a go within reason LOL

 

If she was that ugly mate, you should count your blessings its over!! :laugh:

 

The best way to get over an ex is to find someone new and move on. It's a cliche, but time IS the greatest healer. I beat myself up for years over a failed relationship, looking back I have no idea why (perhaps I just wanted to be misreable?), but now I couldn't be happier. After that relationship I said to myself, that I'd never allow another calous, heartless, cheating, scheming, gold digging, useless, wretched piece of scum upset me again (do I sound bitter still?). Oddly enough, my outlook has changed completely now. I don't worry at all about being single, knowing full well there are literally millions of women out there with poor eyesight and low self-esteem, just waiting for a knight in shining armour like me :blink:

 

Life moves on buddy, so should you. Good luck with the hunt, er I mean, dating thing.

many of you gave me fantastic advice when i finished with my ex

 

im trying really hard to move on and kinda getting my life together

 

i have been on a dating site for about a year now and just lastnight found that my ex is on there too

 

is it better for me to come off there

 

what do you think? really sorry to be sad and ask guys :angel:

 

Buddy, please never apologise for asking advice, I am sure everyone on here will agree that it is the advice given on 300zx.co.uk that makes up part of this forum being the best ZX forum by a long shot.

 

Anyway, back to advice. I would stay on the dating site you are on, and wouldn't worry that your ex is on there too. You are trying to look to the future as well as she is.....

many of you gave me fantastic advice when i finished with my ex

 

im trying really hard to move on and kinda getting my life together

 

i have been on a dating site for about a year now and just lastnight found that my ex is on there too

 

is it better for me to come off there

 

what do you think? really sorry to be sad and ask guys :angel:

 

You need a couple of nights out, and a good laugh, Why don't you come along to our BBQ and firework afternoon/night in Corwen North Wales this Saturday 5th November, and our Christmas meal at Halfway House, Church Street, Connah's Quay, Deeside, Clwyd CH5 4AS on Friday 9th December. It would be great to meet you, and I promise you a good laugh.

Block buttons on dating sights are wonderful.

 

Problem solved.

I would say that if you still feel hurt when you see her then you need to find happiness in your life by yourself before moving on, i dont agree with finding a new date to get over the old one. Finding an efficient and healthy routine does it for me personally. Doing activities that make me happy, especially by myself, always work. and I dont agree with hiding your profile.

 

also, you could try and date a psychologist. i have been for 8 months and its bloody interesting ;)

I would say that if you still feel hurt when you see her then you need to find happiness in your life by yourself before moving on, i dont agree with finding a new date to get over the old one. Finding an efficient and healthy routine does it for me personally. Doing activities that make me happy, especially by myself, always work. and I dont agree with hiding your profile.

 

also, you could try and date a psychologist. i have been for 8 months and its bloody interesting ;)

 

Oh cmon don't rain on his parade...

 

Getting rocks off on a rebound is a long cherished tradition.

lol, i thought it went without saying,

 

'doing activities that make me happy'

 

its all in the translation ;)

lol, i thought it went without saying,

 

'doing activities that make me happy'

 

its all in the translation ;)

 

I didn't see any mention of sport.

 

ANGRY :chris:

I agree, I've gotten over many in the past by smashing somebody else

I would say that if you still feel hurt when you see her then you need to find happiness in your life by yourself before moving on, i dont agree with finding a new date to get over the old one. Finding an efficient and healthy routine does it for me personally. Doing activities that make me happy, especially by myself, always work.

 

You can only do this when you're single? :laugh: I know it helps relieve tension, but I didn't think it was the law! LOL, enjoy doing activities, especially by myself.. :xxx:

I would say that if you still feel hurt when you see her then you need to find happiness in your life by yourself before moving on, i dont agree with finding a new date to get over the old one. Finding an efficient and healthy routine does it for me personally. Doing activities that make me happy, especially by myself, always work. and I dont agree with hiding your profile.

 

also, you could try and date a psychologist. i have been for 8 months and its bloody interesting ;)

 

Efficient and healthy rooting?

 

Well if the lass if fit might as well givver a proper go eh :euro:

oh ohh, looks like i left too much open to translation haha

oh ohh, looks like i left too much open to translation haha

 

Thats what you get for spitting instead of swallowing.

Oh! This is going downhill fast!!

Oh! This is going downhill fast!!

 

Going? :w00t: