^^^ Now that sounds interesting! Might be worth a shot.
James, firstly I'd try removing the subframe locking collars things. This is an easy job and would be worth a try. That said, they wont be the cause of any vibration, they may just amplify them. I really don't think its the propshaft, we've both covered that. Save your effort there.
Personally, I think the problem is within the rear subframe. Either the diff or driveshaft/s. And I would consider getting someone to just swap out the complete rear end with one from a breaker. The man in Doncaster I've mentioned would do this for a fair price and might have one?
I don't think the wheels are the issue either, really I don't. They were bought new to eliminate this as a cause. The vibration didn't change from the wheels previously fitted, but I'm surprised that they are slightly buckled, they really shouldn't be! If you insist on trying the wheels, pick up a pair of original wheels (
Personally, I don't recommend poly bushes except when the price is just far too expensive for the OEM bushes. Fit OEM if possible for best balance of performance and comfort. Many will disagree here though, but I think Nissan engineers know best after investing millions in R n D. If you change the subframe bushes I think OEM are obsolete, so fit the softest possible replacement. Please don't do the solid thing. You'll regret it, there are some members on here that can vouch for this.
Finally be double sure there is no play at the rear wheels, I think I'd sorted that though and all was nice and tight.