spent last night in a motel, wife pulled the pin and ruined a great day.

 

long and short I cant have kids, what I dont want swung round on me is when I tell her to get out the road and she tells me dont tell her what to do, (shes pissed, stagering and its freezing fog.) I said if it was a kid youd tell them to get out teh road.

 

ok she pulls the pin.

 

what would you know, you cant have any can you

 

i know she was drunk, but she was lucky I never throttled her. figured it was best to walk away and calm th hell down.

no consulation m8 but in todays world ( i love both my kids ) would not want to bring kids in to the world today if i was 15 years younger

no consulation m8 but in todays world ( i love both my kis

:confused: lol

sorry hit the enter by accident grrrrrrrrrrr

drunk or not .. that was below the belt :nono:

just ignore her, its what happens when too much alcohol has been drunk and emotions start running high, we all say shit to get a reaction then regret it later!

The other side of the coin is the guilt of bringing kids into the world today. I worry everyday at what they will have to go through as the country and the world is going to crap. we all say stuff we don't mean I'm sure she'll understand the impact of what she's said and make it up to you

The other side of the coin is the guilt of bringing kids into the world today. I worry everyday at what they will have to go through as the country and the world is going to crap. we all say stuff we don't mean I'm sure she'll understand the impact of what she's said and make it up to you

 

i think evey parent thnks that going back through the ages.

 

but I think trace got a reality check last night, she sure as hell is more misserable than I am right now.

 

stil love her more than anything past preasant or future.

its what happens when too much alcohol has been drunk and emotions start running high, we all say shit to get a reaction then regret it later!

 

Sorry to hear about this one mate.....but this part of what she ^^^^ said is right -

 

get drunk, get in a argument....do/say* ----- stupid/downright nasty/hurtful stuff*, sober up, either feel like crap or pretend you can't remember anything.....then attempt to fix it.

 

*delete as appropriate

 

I have to say it's the reason I don't drink anymore...or one of them anyway.

 

Hope it gets sorted out one way or the other.

feel for you Dave , you did the right thing ..you know that, whats been said can never be unsaid , but if i can give any advice ........dont ever remind her she said what she did , dont ever use it to hurt back , believe me she will remember well enough of her own accord ...she has to live with what she said and it was IMO well below the belt ..but two wrongs dont make a right ....you obvioulsy love her to bits.

let it slide Dave your big enough ......booze is real bitch sometimes ...hope you sort it out mate best of luck

 

Steve

Yup agree, shal never be use in an argument by myself. I cant say its forgotten as it cut very deep. But paradice is returning even though its a bit tippy toe round here atm.

 

do love the silly cow though.

Its Christmas, people talk more shite than ever this time of year. More punch ups, more bickering, normal everyday folk turn into complete coonts!!!!

She was out of order, I hope she apologized