Not easy/possible. If people make friends here, by definition it must also be possible to make enemies. In the same way, while you can submit posts which please others you MUST be able to submit ones which offend/annoy. So try not to OFFEND OR be OVERSENSITIVE. There's no other option. We are human. We cannot expect it to run smoothly all the time - all we can and should do, is tell people when they're talking crap, not just jump on everyone when there's a dispute.
People should avoid getting bitchy comments in, and then saying "I was only joking". BUT, people should also avoid taking comments too seriously. If someone says something UNTRUE and hurtful about you, simply respond with the FACTS. If they make a stupid/bitchy/subjective judgement of you, ignore it and have faith in the knowledge that others worth worrying about will be able to see through all the bull and ignore stupid comments. The people who post crap will be known to everyone without you having to say anything.
Define "joke" and define "personal dig" ?
Not easy/possible. If people make friends here, by definition it must also be possible to make enemies. In the same way, while you can submit posts which please others you MUST be able to submit ones which offend/annoy. So try not to OFFEND OR be OVERSENSITIVE. There's no other option. We are human. We cannot expect it to run smoothly all the time - all we can and should do, is tell people when they're talking crap, not just jump on everyone when there's a dispute.
People should avoid getting bitchy comments in, and then saying "I was only joking". BUT, people should also avoid taking comments too seriously. If someone says something UNTRUE and hurtful about you, simply respond with the FACTS. If they make a stupid/bitchy/subjective judgement of you, ignore it and have faith in the knowledge that others worth worrying about will be able to see through all the bull and ignore stupid comments. The people who post crap will be known to everyone without you having to say anything.
If I'm talking bollocks, please say !