Well she has done it again after being back together for 8 months or so, this is the girl that i have been with about seven years! Last xmas we were going through a bad patch but managed to get through it dispite her telling me she had met someone ad was seeing him. This all fell through after about 2 months, and we were getting back together, and getting on well. My feelings were getting more involved and I fell back in love with her. She told me she had booked a holiday in Greece earlyer in the year and the date came around two weeks ago. She told me how much she loved me so many times over the last few months and things felt great. I Txt her on her holiday how much I loved her and how I missed her through out the two weeks. She said she would be back on The saturday so I rang her this morning to a rather cool and offputting Jane. Later today after many txts she told me she has met someone on holiday and wants to make ago of it!!

Needless to say I am apsolutely gobsmacked and realy beside myself :(

I dont need the it will be allright replys I just need to vent a bit so thanks for reading my boreing drivel.

I still cant belive what has happend today

 

Allan

Sh1tty situation and I feel for you fella I really do.

Golden rule everyone should follow, if you ever split up with someone NEVER go back, the reasons you split will always be there.

 

All the best and look forward.

I have tried to txt and talk to jane over the last week or so, hoping to bring her to her sences about our relationship, I have now been accused of harassing her by her son, and told she is seeing someone leave her alone. So the pain is feeling worse than ever now. The woman I so despraitly love wont talk or even face me to explain why all this has happend. I have had a couple of emmotional days wit a few tears and that horrible empty feeling. Some friends have said that this holiday romance of hers wont last and she will be back, but what then? trust or no trust, all feels pretty shite to me at the moment. I feel so lonely at the mo its unreal!

 

Allan

I feel so lonely at the mo its unreal!

 

 

you are not alone! You may not know alot of the members on this site personally but I know alot of them (and mysellf included) are there to support you and help you through this!

 

Chin up suga, I know its hard - but I believe that things happen for a reason.

 

{big hugs}

 

Athene x

You might love this woman, but you are wasting you emotion on her. She sounds if i dare say it, totally selfish.

 

She probably will come running back, when this fling runs off with another model. what then you let her back in? whats that saying to her? apart from whatever you do i will forgive you, in effect having you wrapped round her little finger, giving her carte blanche to do as she likes.

 

Sorry love but she is in the wrong here and she has the gaul to try and make you look like the baddy.

 

Look how she is making you feel? None of this is your doing. Everyone goes through this at one point in their lives at least, your not alone, what doesent kill you makes you stronger.

Has she got her stuff back? If not BURN IT and wish the cow good ridance! Not worth cutting yourself up over tbh, god invented beer for a reason - get out there with your mates and have some fun!!!

 

Keep yer chin up

 

Andy

wOMEN CANT LIVE WITH THEM & ***********LOL

Hi Allan..

 

I do feel for you mate.. It is the shitiest, lonliest, most helpless feeling in the world, and I wouldn't wish it anyone :( ..

But you have to use it to your advantage, and make it make you stronger.. Change your emotion to anger :mad: .. How dare she F*CK with your life like this :rant: ..

You are obviously worth a thousand of her.. Break off all contact, don't take her/her son's calls.. Infact change your number.. Get out there, put yourself about a bit with your mates.. And watch her come seeking you out.. But by then, too fcuking late!!.. You'll have your own life :tongue: :dance:

 

Yes, I am talking from experience ;)

 

All the best mate :)

 

CLICKY MATE:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r8_7uxMEMC4

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^^ Spot on!

 

Couldn't of said it better!

i know this may sound harsh but im being honest here m8

 

sounds like she was just taking you for a ride till she found sum1 else....:(

 

if she comes back dont let her back in your life

 

cheer up m8, go and have a few beers with a few m8's and try to enjoy yourself :)

Never mentioned in my post, I *have* been there and I done the lot. Chasing with txts, trying to call etc etc etc... At the time it hurts like hell and in your mind you think you'll make her see sense and come back. Reality is a different ball game all together though. Get your head together, give your mates a call and go out on the night of your life, preferably NOT the same old joint, go away for the weekend, get a hotel/b&b and do somewhere different.

 

Trust me I've read the book, got the t-shirt blah blah and on more than one relationship. In a few weeks time you will look back and wonder wtf you were so upset about! I know its hard and it feels like you're at the lowest point ever but I can guarantee that you will look back on this and say to yourself "thank **** I got rid of that bitch"!!!

 

Go on, just do it! You won't regret it!!!!

 

Andy

Thanks everybody, gona start another 300 project I think.

Thanks everybody, gona start another 300 project I think.

 

 

you have just hit the nail on the head. Keep busy, i worked my arse off when my last relationship ended, kept myself busy and now im a zed owner, home owner, in a happy relationship, a position i never envisaged being in, in a million years.

 

I posted on here like you did and good God they were all right!! Times a great healer. Forwards ever, Backwards never!!! :duffer:

Or you could start another 300 project....................... :smash:

It's what I'd do!

~~~~~~> when in that weird place......cut speed holes

 

 

 

it works apparently

 

 

 

you'll get over it bud - i know it doesnt feel like it - we all do !! - its better the other side, you just cant see it until you're there

 

does this sound stupid - you wait until your the other side giving this advice - believe me it does happen and in the mean time...........

 

 

 

 

...cut speed holes :dance:

 

chin up bud

 

regards,

 

alex

First get a birch twig no thicker than your thumb...

Stay strong fella,been there almost to the letter you`ll come through fine,may not seem like it but it`s a growing experience,tell u one thing it won`t happen to you again,ride the emotions and look after number one! By the way how come gruntpa64? makes me think of an cloth capped geriatric racing around causing havoc in his zed.actually don`t tell me I kinda like that image.Take care.

Stay strong fella,been there almost to the letter you`ll come through fine,may not seem like it but it`s a growing experience,tell u one thing it won`t happen to you again,ride the emotions and look after number one! By the way how come gruntpa64? makes me think of an cloth capped geriatric racing around causing havoc in his zed.actually don`t tell me I kinda like that image.Take care.

 

1964 I am 42 not 64 lol... and i ran a P.A company for many years called GRUNT.P.A.Co all fits together really