:cry: i'M in shock still ,,,just found out my mate is dead.....//.

I have been trying to get hold of him today after speaking to him yesterday

finally got hold of his mum who says they have found him dead in his garage,.. don't know the circumstance yet............I,m gutted he was a top guy and my best friend i'll miss him dearly .....my condolenses to his family & girlfriend Zena who are totally distraught . rest in peace jay dude you will never be forgotten by me and a lot of your friends. :cry:

 

 

:shock: :shock: :cry:

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Very sad news :( Our thoughts to his family.

I will be talking to his mum tomorrow and try to find out the details etc, but i'm away on holiday for a few days as well,,,,,,don't feel like going now, me and jay have had a good few laughs over the years and usually talk or txt nearly every day,,,,,,gonna seem strange not getting any txt from him with some more hair brained ideas he kept getting ......or buying cars for the fun factor

please tell his mum that we are all thinking of them and offer our condolencies, its not much but it will help her realise just how well thought of her son was

shocked & saddned what a tragic loss, please give my condolances to his family.

please tell his mum that we are all thinking of them and offer our condolencies, its not much but it will help her realise just how well thought of her son was

 

Seconded without a doubt!!!! I'm really gonna miss him :cry:

:cry: :shock: :shock: :cry: maybe we can do something at silverstone black arm band or something ,i dunno what to say ,,,,,,hope you have discovered the next step in evolution jay and peace be with you and your family

So sorry buddy for you and his family. RIP Jay

 

Nick

thoughts r with his family, has this been confirmed for sure?

Hi guys,

 

I know Jay used to come on here often.

 

I got home from work today late, a **** day at work, got home, my wife and parents were here, they broke the news to me. Jerome was gone. I went to school with Jay, he was my best friend and like a brother to me. I'm actually breaking up as i write this.

 

My first reaction was just that of total shock, I just burst in to tears shaking. I had to go and see him regardless, and his mother / sister. I went around and I've spent the night there. I've just got home. I saw him in the garage, it was a very sad moment.

 

It looks like a tragic accident, and I can't get my head around it.

 

I don't know what else to say, I don't want to say too much about it, but if anyone wants to pass on a message to the family, please let me know, they really do need the suport at this time. He lived with his mother only in a house just around the corner from me.

 

When the funeral etc is sorted, I will pass on the details to those who knew him and want to attend, I'm sure his family will want his friends to be there.

 

If anyone has any contact information also for anyone else he knew, worked with, and spent time with please pass it on to me so I can let them know.

 

I don't think I will sleep tonight, it still seems like I'm going to talk to him tomorrow. He was house sitting for me all next week, I still feel like hes going to call me in a minute to chat about whats going on. I don't know what else to say, a tragic waste of life, my best friend I've known and shared all my life since junior school who I will sadly miss, and I don't think life will ever be the same again, he was like a brother to me.

 

He will be sadly missed, as I sat on the spot where he was found, I didn't want to leave, I wanted to stay with him, but now, thats it. RIP Jay, where ever you are buddy take care, we will meet again, but for now you will be missed.

 

Love Steve.

Extremely shocked, and saddened at this news.. Jay and I had a few conversations about GT40's etc.. My thought's are with him, his family, and friends... Very sad indeed :(

 

R.I.P Jay

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Very sad! Seemed like a smashing lad. I think a collection would be a nice gesture from the club. Let us know how we can donate Andy.

 

My thoughts are with those of you who were close to him.

Jesus Christ. Not sure what to say. Don't know the guy, but what a tragic waste of life.

 

RIP

Like i mentioned if anyone wants details on the funeral, when I have more info, and his familys say so I will pass it on, please pm me. Of course it will depend on what his mother and sister says, I'll find out more over the next week.

 

It would be nice if those who knew him on here wanted to contribute towards some flowers for the funeral.

 

Thanks,

I don't know what to say, I've just been out having a great time and this has made me realize that life is far far far too short.

 

All my thoughts for his mother and special lady, and for you as well Steve.

 

 

Eileen

Sad news . Sincere condolences to his family and friends .

Hi guys,

 

I'm not sure how many people knew Jerome on here, it seems like a few, and I know he used to come on here often.

 

I got home from work today late, a shit day at work, got home, my wife and parents were here, they broke the news to me. Jerome was dead. I went to school with Jay, he was my best friend and like a brother to me. I'm actually breaking as i write this.

 

My first reaction was just that of total shock, I just burst in to tears shaking. I had to go and see him regardless, and his mother / sister. I went around and I've spent the night there. I've just got home. I saw him in the garage in the body bag, it was a very sad moment.

 

It looks like a tragic accident, and I can't get my head around it.

 

I don't know what else to say, I don't want to say too much about it, but if anyone wants to pass on a message to the family, please let me know, they really do need the suport at this time. He lived with his mother only in a house just around the corner from me, a place that will now never be the same.

 

When the funeral etc is sorted, I will pass on the details to those who knew him and want to attend.

 

If anyone has any contact information also for anyone else he knew, worked with, and spent time with please pass it on to me so I can let them know.

 

I don't think I will sleep tonight, it still seems like I'm going to talk to him tomorrow. He was house sitting for me all next week, I still feel like hes going to call me in a minute to chat about whats going on. I don't know what else to say, a tragic waste of life, my best friend I've known and shared all my life since junior school who I will sadly miss, and I don't think life will ever be the same again, he was like a brother to me.

 

He will be sadly missed, as I sat on the spot where they found him, I didn't want to leave, I wanted to stay with him, but now, thats it. RIP Jay, where ever you are buddy take car, you will be missed. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

 

Love Steve.

 

Steve I remember when he added you to my msn list years ago.

RIP Jerome a sad loss of young life:(

The least we can do is have a collection from all the members that knew him.

rip mate

 

even tho i never met him or spoke to him but my condolances to the family and friends

 

i lost a friend a few years back in a car crash at a young age

 

another person i knew died in a crash a few years back

 

at his funeral they had a fiesta convoy and every year at one of the shows they have the *** martin memorial trophey for best in show.

 

my thoughts are with the family

:(

RIP Jay. My thoughts go out to those who knew him, his family and partner.

I posted a thread for a part a couple of weeks ago, He was the only one that PM'd me, the part was sent out that day and he actually phoned me the next day to make sure it arrived before the bank holiday week end. He didnt need to, but he was genuinely concerned that I got it. The world has too few people like this already, My condolences go out to his family, his girlfriend and his friends.....R.I.P. mate

i cant belive it very very sad, my condolances to the family R.I.P mate

Hi guys,

 

I'm not sure how many people knew Jerome on here, it seems like a few, and I know he used to come on here often.

 

I got home from work today late, a shit day at work, got home, my wife and parents were here, they broke the news to me. Jerome was dead. I went to school with Jay, he was my best friend and like a brother to me. I'm actually breaking as i write this.

 

My first reaction was just that of total shock, I just burst in to tears shaking. I had to go and see him regardless, and his mother / sister. I went around and I've spent the night there. I've just got home. I saw him in the garage in the body bag, it was a very sad moment.

 

It looks like a tragic accident, and I can't get my head around it.

 

I don't know what else to say, I don't want to say too much about it, but if anyone wants to pass on a message to the family, please let me know, they really do need the suport at this time. He lived with his mother only in a house just around the corner from me, a place that will now never be the same.

 

When the funeral etc is sorted, I will pass on the details to those who knew him and want to attend.

 

If anyone has any contact information also for anyone else he knew, worked with, and spent time with please pass it on to me so I can let them know.

 

I don't think I will sleep tonight, it still seems like I'm going to talk to him tomorrow. He was house sitting for me all next week, I still feel like hes going to call me in a minute to chat about whats going on. I don't know what else to say, a tragic waste of life, my best friend I've known and shared all my life since junior school who I will sadly miss, and I don't think life will ever be the same again, he was like a brother to me.

 

He will be sadly missed, as I sat on the spot where they found him, I didn't want to leave, I wanted to stay with him, but now, thats it. RIP Jay, where ever you are buddy take car, you will be missed. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

 

Love Steve.

:cry: send our love mate, never met jerome but i know you were best friends, sorry for you and his family&friends :cry:

 

greg, kath and kids x

Steve I remember when he added you to my msn list years ago.

RIP Jerome a sad loss of young life:(

The least we can do is have a collection from all the members that knew him.

indeed, not just people that know him but rather people that know off him, as he was part of the Z community

RIP. Condolences to the family. What a tragic loss of a young life!

Thoughts with his family and friends

Paul & Anna

xxx

Terribly sad news - condolences.

Thanks Greg mate, and Mac and all. I fell asleep sometime last night after drinking myself stupid in the early hours, not going to help I know but there we go. The postman woke me up at 7am, I just heard a knocking on the door and was hoping it was him, it's so surreal atm.

 

And Dipone your gif of doom is the first thing thats made me laugh since I woke up lol, so thanks for that :)

 

I've just been going through some pics of him and , I thought I'd post up a couple of him and Zena at our wedding, it was last August bank holiday.