i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

 

be greatful for what u have....

 

i personally find it quite hard around mothersday, xmas and birthdays cose my mum died in 1994 when i was 14.

 

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

I look after my mum as much as i can. I still live at home at the moment so i carry shopping in, help her out with money when she needs it and generally give her a hug when she's feeling down.

 

All mum's should be looked after :D

I look after my mum as much as i can. I still live at home at the moment so i carry shopping in, help her out with money when she needs it and generally give her a hug when she's feeling down.

 

All mum's should be looked after :D

Nice one Bunny :cool:

You've met my mum though, she's the best mum in the world :D hehe

your mum's in a better place mate its you that you need to look after now. we all have our time, and its then when we see everyone again.

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

 

Wish I could ... my mum (and dad) currently live in Dubai so I only see them once or twice a year :( I'm going over in April :dance: )

 

Regardless, they are deserving of every bit of love and spoiling you can bestow on them!

My Mum rocks, she drive a modded FTO and I treat her like one of my mates, only better :)

 

Best film quote about Mums - "Mother is the word for God on the lips of all children." (taken from The Crow)

i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

 

be greatful for what u have....

 

i personally find it quite hard around mothersday, xmas and birthdays cose my mum died in 1994 when i was 14.

 

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

 

Will do Bud sorry you lost her so young that nust be hard. My Mum is great

she is 70 this year. I don't get to see them much as they are allways on holiday........spending your inheritance. Good on em they worked 7 days a week for what they have now. I hope they live at least another 10 years.

i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

 

be greatful for what u have....

 

i personally find it quite hard around mothersday, xmas and birthdays cose my mum died in 1994 when i was 14.

 

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

Well said bud.

Lost my mum back in 2001, she was embarrassing, but what are mums for? ;)

Your mum's always follow you and look over you. My mum's mum (my gran) watches over her we know that and i know my mum's the same

 

I love gran too, i've lost both my grandads and my other gran so i only have my gran tandy left and she's brill

 

Deaf as a post but has a right sarky sense of humour and never fails to make me laugh :rofl:

 

I took her as a guest to my graduation day :D

 

awww cute @ granny!

 

well 4 years this year that my mom died.

 

still cant get over it - doubt i ever will. All i want in my life right now - is one more day with her!

 

:( :( :( :(

Aww bless you hon :(

 

She's there with you and will never leave your life :)

 

My grandpa visits me in my dreams randomly and never says a word just smiles at me with his twinkly eyes and i wake up feeling so much more peaceful :)

my mom said to me that, since new years eve, every day i wake up and im with my wife and son is a good day. i know how lucky i am now, since new years eve i have suffered 4 more t.i.a's or 'slights' as they are also known and my wife,son and both families stick by me like glue. cant get better than that.

 

trust me, i really know how lucky i have been and am!

mums are great, mines in tennerife at the moment (prob getting pissed up lol)

Mums are great even when they make us blush lol.

 

Mines suddenly turned very fiesty since she officially retired even tho she still cycles off to work every other day on her little bicycle to look after her 'old dears' lol

Sorry to here that Mark, but I wouldnt piss on mine if she was on fire. She was a terrible mother, and I had an awfull childhood. :(

i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

 

be greatful for what u have....

 

i personally find it quite hard around mothersday, xmas and birthdays cose my mum died in 1994 when i was 14.

 

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

I couldn't agree more mate.I am grateful for every day,when i can pick up the phone and speak to my mum.She was an absolute rock,when i was young,when my dad used to come home pissed,and beat us both up,so yeah-every mothers day,i spoil her rotten-here's to my mum,and my best friend. :duffer: :)

i lost both sets of grandparents, my uncle (he was just 31) and my mum since i was about 11

 

been to more funerals than weddings :(

 

some days its really hard, even more so when see people out with their mums, that really gets to me :(

 

i guess life just isnt fair some times, i know she is around and looks after me but it does not make life any easier at all :(

 

its like anything though, u dont truly miss sumthing untill its gone, just wish i had the chance to say bye to her :cry: :cry:

Yep lost my Mum a year ago in april, although she wasnt one for showing her love, and i didnt know any different, she was still my Mum and the only one i had and i loved her and wish she was still here for me to give something back, so those who are lucky enough to still have their mums, give a little back, if anyone has any differences with their mums, sort them out, they are un-replacable when they are gone :(

My mum is a pain in the arse, she has some strange ideas, has caused a whole load of trouble for me and mine, is judgmental and narrow minded.

 

But if she wasn't she wouldn't be my mom, and I know she is only looking out for me.

 

She has a great job though, she's a test pilot in a broom factory :rofl: :rofl:

 

Sorry mom

My mum is a pain in the arse, she has some strange ideas, has caused a whole load of trouble for me and mine, is judgmental and narrow minded.

 

But if she wasn't she wouldn't be my mom, and I know she is only looking out for me.

 

She has a great job though, she's a test pilot in a broom factory :rofl: :rofl:

 

Sorry mom

 

They seem like that sometimes, but we forget they where brought up in a different way and times to us :)

They seem like that sometimes, but we forget they where brought up in a different way and times to us :)

 

With out a doubt, its only when you grow up and have your own kids that you realise and then understand.

 

She was very cool when I was growing up but then seemed to loose touch with things, or maybe I just became an idiot :rofl:

i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

 

be greatful for what u have....

 

i personally find it quite hard around mothersday, xmas and birthdays cose my mum died in 1994 when i was 14.

 

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

 

 

I second that and know exactly how you feel bud, i lost my mum in 1996 just after mothers day when i was 22 and even after all this time i miss her more than ever, my heart goes out to you mate but rest assured your not alone and your mum will be proud off that thread and everything you do, i know mine is ;)

 

I also lost my younger brother this time last year, so March is officailly the Sh**est month af the year and a complete right off :(

 

However, on a positive note i will add, as result of losing a number of my nearest & dearest it has taught me that:

Life's too short you never know when your time is up & Life ain't no dress rehearsal, you don't get a second chance. SO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL, LIVE EVERY DAY LIKE IT'S LAST....... LIVE LIFE AT 150MPH BUY A ZED AND ENJOY, KEEP SMILING :D

i think some times people need to take a step back and see what you have, even more so this time of year.

do me a favour if your mum is still around treat her.... they deserve it :(

 

I’m very very lucky to have mine but it makes you realize how hard it is for people who don’t. My Misses Dad died not so long ago and then two months later her Mam died. It’s been the hardest thing to go through and I really feel for anyone has gone through this.

i have to admit, reading this thread has had me in tears a few times :(

 

its werid how people deal with grief, some people cry for days on end, some people forget it and carry on, i was the latter. went school the following day and lied about where i had been. Sounds stupid but i was ashamed of what happened so i didnt tell any of my freinds for years. didnt want to be the odd one out if that makes sense?

 

trouble with trying to forget it it comes back to haunt you years down the line and it 100 times worse to deal with. so you forget it again and try to move on, its a viscious circle.

 

i really do appriciate all the comments guys, it really means alot that im not alone feeling like this around mothersday

 

all of my friends have their parents so its hard to talk to any, the missus is the same, dont really understand she tries though :(