New year new start, thats what they say. But being back single again was'nt exactly what i had in mind but hey thats the way it goes.

So what the F**k are you suppose to do???? going into town is so boring that i would end up falling asleep, done the go out and get pi**ed approach before and thats boring.

So i thought F**k it anyone up for a BBQ some beer and a film on the old projector????. If so just let me know cos now its all my house, it can go back to been an open house again as it was before.

 

LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL AGAIN

Hi dave if your up for it ill do the midlands bash too at least it will give me someone to run down with

 

Give us a call sometime john and we'll arange a time n place to meet up. Good to see you down at the milkbar other day mate.

I've not had a woman living with me for over 3 1/2 years now, which was wiered at the time to be suddenly single again, but it does have it's plus points, like having all the interior panels all over the lounge floor while I was doing the re-trim :D having the headlamps and rear lamps while modding them on the table for a few days!

 

Or filling the dishwasher with engine components.... :wack:

 

:)

I've not had a woman living with me for over 3 1/2 years now, which was wiered at the time to be suddenly single again, but it does have it's plus points, like having all the interior panels all over the lounge floor while I was doing the re-trim :D having the headlamps and rear lamps while modding them on the table for a few days!

 

 

Problem is the lass that i was with enjoyed doing the zed aswell and didn't mind the bits been around the house while i were working on 'em.

IF!!!! i'd ever been able to buy my Eliza in the first place :rolleyes: my ex would NEVER of let me use the house for bits and bobs, and defo no spending on upgrades!!! Oh I'm glad she fooked off ;) :rofl:

Problem is the lass that i was with enjoyed doing the zed aswell and didn't mind the bits been around the house while i were working on 'em.

see thats where you are going wrong, remembering the good things about a woman, forget those and remeber the shit things that she done and only them, it will help you a lot

 

speaking from experiance

 

Allan

see thats where you are going wrong, remembering the good things about a woman, forget those and remeber the shit things that she done and only them, it will help you a lot

 

speaking from experiance

 

Allan

 

Good words mate thanks :bow: :bow:

I'm remembering the good things my Ex did, and like i say, I'm soooooo glad she fooked off!!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

see thats where you are going wrong, remembering the good things about a woman, forget those and remeber the shit things that she done and only them, it will help you a lot

 

speaking from experiance

 

Allan

 

Ditto that mate. When you put the good points against the shit it's more shit than good but it takes time to see it.

ive got a theory, when you are together the oposite sex always remembers the things you didnt do for them, but they always forget about the things you have done for them

 

now when you break up, these theorys swop places, but you have to remember why you broke up in the first place, yes it sounds shit (making you think of why you broke up) but you have to think do you really want to be with her

 

ive been like you, wanting the lads to come out and have a good piss up, or go out for the day with just the lads, i know why you are doing it (if you are like me) you are trying to get over the fact that you are single and unhappy, but fear not bud, everyone has been through it, and i take refuge in the fact that if they can get through it then so can i

 

fook al this being posotive shite, cause when you are like ths it means nowt, but always remeber, if other people can do it then so can you, it will get better (even if at the moment it feels like it wont)

 

keep strong bud and keep ya chin up

Thanks for the support everyone :bow: :bow: And the offer still stands if any of you are ever passing this way(selby) give us a pm and your always welcome for a :duffer:

As a newly single man myself (boxing day ffs), it's tough mate but once you get past the first couple of weeks you'll be fine :D

 

I'm not qute there yet but other female distractions help :D hehe

 

Good luck fella,

 

Nick

As a newly single man myself (boxing day ffs), it's tough mate but once you get past the first couple of weeks you'll be fine :D

 

I'm not qute there yet but other female distractions help :D hehe

 

Good luck fella,

 

Nick

 

Oh i'll get there mate its just also a bit harder when you also lose your step daughter of the last 3.5yrs aswell. Not to mention the fact that my son moved out to his mums (different relationship from past)at the begining of the year too

Oh i'll get there mate its just also a bit harder when you also lose your step daughter of the last 3.5yrs aswell. Not to mention the fact that my son moved out to his mums (different relationship from past)at the begining of the year too

 

I remember reading that before matey, really sorry it all happened in one year but things can only get better now.

 

Clean slates are always the best ones.

 

Nick

single lifes the best overall i reckon. theres a whole world of women to enjoy out there , for 1 or (2 nights if you can get them to do a bit of ironing on their way out )why just enjoy one forever. i know its hard to see that at the mo but its time to enjoy yourself. we are not on this earth long so make the most of it and do whatever takes your fancy each day. good luck bud.

Dave ya need to find a active hobby that means getting out and doing something. Running clubs are great places for meeting ladies. Remember though you can sample as often as you like, but no buying.