Guys, Missus was chattin to me last night & told me that a guy at work grabbed hold of her arse & tried to kiss her. She told him to get off but made a joke of it so's not to make a big deal of it. What do you think I should do?

Well back to the subject at hand !! firstly your misses is pissed off i guess but doesnt want to rock the boat, O.K. ask her again was it jokey kind of thing or was it he,s a player and wants to commit adultery type of move i do agree partly with the idea of sort of letting it go but the poisition i was in some time ago with my misses was her boss getting a bit too frisky with her ,little things really but over a period of about 2 months i was unaware of until one day she was a bit upset so i finally dragged out of her that he was talking about wanting to take her for a drink, at the same time putting his hand on the back of her neck !!! the first thing i was gonna do was pop into her work and throw the fooker down the escalater but my misses said if i did that SHE would be out of a job and and i would get in trouble, sooooo after i relieved my anger on a wheely bin i spoke to one of her workmates found out where he lived and paid him a visit! Now i quietly asked him to step outside and that nothing was gonna happen but if he wanted to talk about it in front of his misses i was quite happy to do that. He agreed to step out, i told him in no uncertain terms lay off or next time he,d be sippin orange juice through a straw in hospital, and he knew i fookin meant it!! I also said if the misses got any undue greif at work from him the same would apply just not by me as i would be up the pub wiv 10 witnesses ;) ;) Without drivellin on any more she got treated BETTER after including a well deserved promotion and after about a year a nice anonamous phone call to the head office about weird stocktaking procedures i thought they should know about saw him leaving the company rather hastily OH DEAR!! :( just one moral, revenge is best served COLD !!!! :rofl:

 

Just pulling ya leg Scoopy Poopy;)

 

 

yep, i know, you dont need to tell me.

Fookin ell I have just agreed with a Greg post :rofl: :bow:

 

 

100% spot on IMHO Mr Minit;)

 

Thanks for saving me the time to reply to him guys, it really wasnt worth the effort.. :D

 

And look, the clubs coming together again.... ;) :eek: :bow:

if sum1 did that to my missus i would go ****ing mental

 

go and confront him m8

 

lay the law down, use the old "Do that again and i will break both ur legs and both ur arms"

if sum1 did that to my missus i would go ****ing mental

 

go and confront him m8

 

lay the law down, use the old "Do that again and i will break both ur legs and both ur arms"

 

 

err nice one.. but what if he's bigger and breaks your legs instead?

I find a quiet little word out of earshot an off cctv works wonders

I find a quiet little word out of earshot an off cctv works wonders

And if the other bloke is a 10' raving phsychopath who does not give a fook?? :mac1: :mac1: In these situations all though its a male thing to say punch first ask questions later, as we get older its not always the case, specialy as its how a lot of people make money by claiming.

err nice one.. but what if he's bigger and breaks your legs instead?

 

Then you even out the odd's....;) Been there, done that... :)....All I'll say is 6' 4" boxer, he lost! :eek: Oh, and he threw the first punch...I had a black ear for weeks, if only I had moved quicker! Fooker! :rofl: ;)

 

*UPDATE*.....I decided to wait and see if it happens again before I pay him a visit, and then this morning the missus text me to say she's arranged to meet her boss after her round to spill the beans.......good on 'er..... :bow: He was also out saturday night as they had their works do and he diddnt go anywhere near her, I was readily on standby for a phone call from her!!! :mac1:

 

On another note, the missus was speaking to one of the other 2 women that work there and they also had similiar treatment from this guy. :rant: The guy will hopefully have whats coming to him from his boss.....wan*er! :rant:

 

*UPDATE*.....I decided to wait and see if it happens again before I pay him a visit, and then this morning the missus text me to say she's arranged to meet her boss after her round to spill the beans.......good on 'er..... :bow: He was also out saturday night as they had their works do and he diddnt go anywhere near her, I was readily on standby for a phone call from her!!! :mac1:

 

On another note, the missus was speaking to one of the other 2 women that work there and they also had similiar treatment from this guy. :rant: The guy will hopefully have whats coming to him from his boss.....wan*er! :rant:

 

 

thats good news that there is another person to make the complaint stronger.

and dont forget "best seved cold ;) ;) "