Had the day from hell. Sitting here with everyone gone to bed and I can't sleep from all the worry. Sorry to post like this, I'm just writing things down to try and feel better. Without going into details, found out today that someone who used to work for us is accusing my dad of "improper" behaviour towards her. TOTAL bullsh1t and we've heard she's doing it to get her own back on us for giving her a disciplinary warning. My folks are the kindest most honest, good people you're ever likely to meet and it's killing me to see them being put through this sh1t. As there's not an ounce of truth in it we know that if it went any further it would be laughed out of court but it's the thought of having to go through it all...They're in their late 60's now and my dad's not a well man and this has totally shaken them both. We've been told second hand she's gone to the police but we don't know if this is more lies...I guess we just have to wait to see if we get a phone call. I feel so sick with frustration that I can't do anything, only reassure them that everything will be ok. How can people be so fVckin cruel??

friday i know what your going through unfortunately my case has not been thrown out of court i have to appear in crown court on the 14th of this month and some bullchit claims made by my ex wife and her daughter if it goes wrong im looking at 4 years prison minimum

So sorry to hear that mate. :( I really hope it works out ok for you...it's a terrible thing to have to go through.

 

Leigh.

yeah it is what i have been acused of is 2 counts of indecent assualt and 2 of gross indecency to a minor and there is no way on this feckin planet i would do that to a child

if it does go bad i get 4 years then life on the national register banned from working with kids and hunted down for the rest of my life so if it does happen that way im leaving england forever

Thought I'd update this thread as recently had some very good news. The case was thrown out, my dad completely exonerated and the police are pursuing her for wasting their time etc. etc.

 

This past 6 months has been hell for our family. It felt like we had the proverbial sword of Damocles permanently hanging over our heads and there wasn't a damn thing we could do about it. It's had a bad effect on my dads health but at least this is finally over. After all her lies and what she and her evil family put us through I really want to see her pay for what she's done...legal retribution just isn't harsh enough IMO.

 

 

Wanna put a great big smiley up for you but know thats not the right one, very glad its all over for you all. I only wish you hadnt had to go through it in the first place.

 

All the best mate :)

friday i know what your going through unfortunately my case has not been thrown out of court i have to appear in crown court on the 14th of this month and some bullchit claims made by my ex wife and her daughter if it goes wrong im looking at 4 years prison minimum

 

Christ, dont know what to say mate, just hope the claims are utter bullshit and you walk away from it all. :(

Superb news :hyper: :hyper:

It was always pretty obvious what was going on, especially to anyone who knows Fred, but thank god it's all sorted finally mate.

Really glad to hear that Friday. I was reading the start of this thread thinking it was new (only just saw date :rolleyes: ) and GOOD FOR YOU and your parents. now you can either relax now its all over or take the fight back to her for deformation of character (or just threaten to) and grind her under your heel :mac1:

Glad it's all sorted Leigh! Hope your Dad's getting better now..

 

Steve :)

yes all the claims are utter bullchit have been trying to get this sorted now for the last 14 months so im getting kinda woried now

Glad to here this worry has been lifted Liegh, I know revenge sounds a good idea but it will only prolong the healing mate.

 

All the best to you and your folks

 

Steve

pleased to read this leigh ;) glad things are are finally being resolved slowly