Sorry to bear my soul on here

 

Well after being married for nearly 13 years, a few weeks ago my wife came home and dropped the bomb shell that she was not happy and she wanted us to split up :(

 

After a heart to heart we went away for a few days and got things back on track but last night when she came home from work she tells me that its over :cry:

 

Now i thought i knew women but i'm at a loss?? how can you throw away 13 years?? i thought i was happily married until a few weeks ago?

 

I am trying to put a brave face on it and sorting out everything but with a house, kid, dog and a house full of stuff its not something i'm looking forward to.

 

And i'm really not looking forward to being single again after so many years.

 

Mike

can i just say thank you for all the support, its really touching and very much welcome :)

 

believe it or not i had nearly a dozen PM's offering support and phone numbers so i can call them to talk so many thanks, its really touched me

 

Mike

I would be single but I cant afford the Divorce :x:

I would be single but I cant afford the Divorce :x:

 

i think its going to clear me out, i will be lucky if i come away from this debt free :(

 

also my business is made up of the wifes 2 brothers and her dad so things are a little "funny" at the moment so who knows

Dude I was just joking when I said that, its never easy! anyone who says it does not bother them is lying.

Sorry to hear that Mike:(

 

I wouldn't know where to start if it happened to me mate - so I'm afraid I have no words of wisdom for you.

 

I just hope you can get things sorted between you with the minimum of fuss, expense and pain. I feel for you buddy.

 

All the best,

 

Richard