Hi Nicci, speaking as someone who is a man and does,nt no you, i dont think your over jealous, your acting as anyone in the same position would, and quite rightly. Now as a man i can honestly say 99% of us would jump at the chance of having a "gym buddy" if you know what i mean, the other 0.1% are obviously on this forum. Avoid any help from men that refur to you as "hun" they just want to be YOUR "gym buddy" hate hun people. Your obviously very worried about this, you need to talk to the best and closest friend you have and you'll be in a better frame of mind to deal with it. Coming on here for help then being told YOU need theropy wont help your feelings at the moment. Good luck and hope everything turns out ok for you.