I tend to agree with both of you to a point.
Sure, the iridiums are not as far away from the head as the 11B's but they are still a more superior plug.
I'm an old fan of copper plugs, basically because copper is a better conductor than platinum and in theory provide a "stronger" spark. The problem is that copper plugs degrade very quickly on turbo charged cars and struggle under high boost conditions if the gap isn't perfect, and I mean perfect.
I've messed around with plugs on a number of turbo'd cars and found copper plugs (when PERFECTLY gapped) to provide a "cleaner" burn and generally smoother through the rev range. Also, I averaged an extra 2-3 mpg on copper plugs. Are they worth the hassle? Only if you have the patience to play around with different gaps and are prepared to change them every 5-6k. Other than that platinum are a lot stonger and forgiving when it comes to tuning and raising the ol' boost, but they're not perfect.
Iridiums. IMO, these are the dogs... Conductivity like copper, stronger that plats and able to hold a superior spark under the most severe conditions (heat, obscene boost, you name it). I have never heard a bad word about them. Only good. I know of many people who noticed marked improvements over plats, particularly in high boost applications, curing high-boost misfires and so on.
Those of you with stock cars - stick with plats. Go high boost - try the iridiums and you'll never turn back.
Andy