I know you all have lives and more important things to do, but wanted to post my feelings somewhere!

 

Yup, after 2 weeks the wife is actually moving out today with my little one. I know its for the best and this way we both have a chance of a decent life, but after spending 5 years together it still hit me pretty hard this morning and was very choked up as I took our son to the childminder and waved to my wife from the back door for the last time.

 

Will get home tonight and a lot of stuff will be gone, stuff which holds a lot of great memories for me, I just hope I start to feel better soon.

 

It's strange that over the past two weeks I have been OK, but it hit me pretty hard this morning.

 

Thanks for listening.

i wasnt married mate but was with my ex for five years and have a one year old son it rips me apart everytime but i also live in the hope that it gets better!

I can't imagine what it feels like. I just pray as everyone does it doesn't happen to me /them.

things might seem bad but you can still see your son you are all fit and well and today is the first day of the rest of your life hold your head up talk to friends and family and remember things will get better, all the best sharpy.

the end of a relationship is always painful, and im sure it will feel lonely at home for a while but stay strong and look forward to the times where the little one will come to visit and you can create happy memories of these visits for him

I've been through it aswell, had been with my ex for eight years when she moved out with my two children, it takes time but it does get better.

I can't say i've had to experience anything like this mate, so i won't say to much, just keep your chin up and try your very best to stay positive :)

Thanks for all your thoughts, its much appreciated. It's nice to know there is somewhere to turn when you need folk to just "listen" to you, especially as my parents live abroad!

Oh didnt expect this, sorry to hear bud and it will get easier, chin up mate:)

been there, done that. as hard as it may seem, if its not working out it can only be for the best :)

Really sorry to hear it mate, it doesn't make it any easier on you but things have a way of sorting themselves out in the end. Keep your chin up buddy :)

Really sorry to hear that mate, keep your chin up!

I can't say i've had to experience anything like this mate, so i won't say to much, just keep your chin up and try your very best to stay positive :)

 

This will defo not happen to you Izzy as you is well "GAY" :D;)

It get s alot better mate trust me. At least you can concentrate on spending quality time that you will treasure more with your nipper. The invites still open m8 to come to london. I replied to your post m8 gimme a shout.

Hey Mowerman! Email me your phone number again as lost it! jonny_sharp99@yahoo.co.uk

This will defo not happen to me Vinzzy as i is well "GAY" :D;)

 

Fixed it for you Vinz :D Don't need to thank me mate, its all part of the service :D :nana2: :rofl: :rofl:

Happened to me about 10yrs ago, had been with her for 7yrs.

At least yours told you she was going, mine didn't, didn't tell

little'un either, in fact she left her behind!

It does get better mate, there is light at the end of the tunnel, believe me.