me and my good lady might be splitting up ater 6 years, we have a son together who we love very much but i think the time has come where she has had enough of me and vice versa, i'll have nowhere to live and she will move back to her ma's which is gonna be about 25 miles away, i can bearly afford to get to work so i'm never gonna see my son, a second job is out of the question as i'm knackerd now so another job will kill me.

 

i love her more than anything in the world and she knows i do but like i said i din't think we can carry on like this, i come in from work and she goes out to work so we never see eachother, has anyone else been in this situation who can give me some advice

 

Regards, Chris :cry:

yo snowy been there myself a long time ago but after nearly 26 years of marriage I must have done something right and made a good descision.Im really happy for you all just dont take things for granted and you'll be ok

 

cheers john, how are you and the wife by the way?

very good .I will be a lot better on Friday though a fortnight in cornwall in our caravan.I,ll bring you a stick of rock back

nice to see you & andrea are trying to work it out :), just the same as me & kaz. its very difficult to see yourself on your own after spending a lot of years together, especially in my case. i would hate to be without her. i found it very difficult to cope when she moved out for the week as i was basically on my own, but she had her parents there to talk to. if it wasnt for andy, saz & lisa, god knows what i would have done.

very good .I will be a lot better on Friday though a fortnight in cornwall in our caravan.I,ll bring you a stick of rock back

glad your both ok john and i've never tried cornwall rock so i'll hold you to it :rofl:

nice to see you & andrea are trying to work it out :), just the same as me & kaz. its very difficult to see yourself on your own after spending a lot of years together, especially in my case. i would hate to be without her. i found it very difficult to cope when she moved out for the week as i was basically on my own, but she had her parents there to talk to. if it wasnt for andy, saz & lisa, god knows what i would have done.

 

i know what you mean Paul, everyone has been great, you along with everyone else have talked me out of just letting it all go and i'm just really thankful for you lot talking me out of it, she should be home by 10 tonight so we're gonna have something to eat then curl up on the settee, i dont care that its gonna be late :)