Small story first give you more of an idea.

1 was married, for 10 years, two kids, nice house, cars and money so so.

Last year i found out wifey had been playing around with a mate of mine for 18 months. Got divorced, lost loads of cash on house to ex. Bought zed, blew it up. still see kids. Rather than have girlfriend, have 3 shag buddies on the go at the same time. After while decide too much hard work if you know what i mean.

So recently got new girlfriend. all good unitl today. :headvswal

 

Get one of those texts, "we need to chat?" from girlfriend, so we have chat, and stu is single again. Various different words exchanged.

Feed dog, drive to work. get snotty text of now ex girlfriend. Ruin my morning....

 

Whilst driving to next job, pop into builders merchants and by some brick cleaner acid. put in van, pop to tescos. Come out and some twat has hit my vans rear light cluster, and driven off. OH WHAT A JOY!!!

 

Get home to find the dog has been scoffing in the fooking bin, and choked up some chicken drumsticks all over the carpet, go to the van to get some gloves ( as i dont like holding dog puke!! only to find the brick cleaner has leaked all over my tools and the vapours nearly knocked me out.

 

I have decided this.

girlfriends are better than wives, as they dont cost as much

shag buddies are better than girlfriends as they dont want flowers to say thanks.

Cats are better than dogs, at least their puke is smaller

water is far less harmfull as brick cleaner

and as for f***ers not leaving details after they hit someone, im going to hunt them down, and cut their bonnet off with a 14" petrol cutter.

 

Im now on the STELLA.

 

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggghhhhhh

You guys have cheered me up.I was a bit fed up but in reflection i've got nothing to be fed up about compared to you lot.Hope everything works out for all of you and have these on me. :duffer: :duffer: :duffer: :duffer: :duffer: :duffer: :duffer: :duffer:

 

PS Duffman

if you need money for your mortgage my Zed needs a couple of coats of looking at(i live in Castleford with a decent sized warm garage with running water and plenty of tea and bickys) :D

Will be the anniversary of my sons death next week, so will have a drink or three, look at some pics, cry and then I will get through another year !

His name was Graham and he would have been 18.

 

Alan.....

Will be the anniversary of my sons death next week, so will have a drink or three, look at some pics, cry and then I will get through another year !

His name was Graham and he would have been 18.

 

Don't think there's a lot that can follow that :(

 

 

And reading everything else - maybe I'm the lucky one seeing as women will never give me a second look!

hi guys worst month for me was nov 1995 . found out my partner for 5 years was shagin some guy from work , we split up i lost my house my garage my cobra replica i also got made redundant at work then my dad died i got chicken pox for the first time (i was 35 not good) went out on the piss xmass eve that year got pissed then got a cab home but only had 20 kwid on me so i had to walk 5 miles in the freezing cold ended up walking past where i had parked my car (you guessed it ) got in my car to go and smash my exes new boyfriends head in .spun the car and ended up facing the wrong way down the road busting a tire , plod then turn up give me a breath test (im well over the limit ) next thing im walking home from the police station freezing my tits of , go and get my car the next day and i find the head gaskets gone ....

 

 

but if these things had never happend to me i wouldnt be the luky happy ******* i am now , i wouldnt change a thing :hyper: :hyper:

looks like its a lads nite and spill the beans nite allso :( 6 years ago my 14 year marriage ends in hate and £££££££ down the shitter so i shake my self down and start a fresh life in california,meet a woman,selltle down blah,blah,blah after a couple of years come home to sell a couple of propertys i had while girlfriend looked after affairs over there,any way gets a phone call one night off her son to inform me "mom" had commited suicide :confused: :confused: now thats pure devastation right there people and you think theres no way out of the hurt your feeling except the ultimate but you keep on going and fighting your way back because to do that sort of stuff is to give up the fight and thats not my style and iff you have half an ounce of man pride you should,nt think that allso,so to cut a long story short i met another fantastic american girl while i was over there and that was about 3 years ago and lifes all rosey again because i would,nt go down on the ropes after getting beaten up :duffer: :duffer: . grief,cry and be sad but things will start to be better as time goes on its the way life is....

 

fook bri :(

 

glad lifes better now though!

 

i think every man/woman has times in there life where it feels it cant get any worse. But you got to keep going, and make life best as you can!

Will be the anniversary of my sons death next week, so will have a drink or three, look at some pics, cry and then I will get through another year !

His name was Graham and he would have been 18.

 

Alan.....

condolences alan :(

i cant realy beat any of that, very depressing.

 

worse day of my life, loosing me mum. I cant think of anything worse than that.

Will be the anniversary of my sons death next week, so will have a drink or three, look at some pics, cry and then I will get through another year !

His name was Graham and he would have been 18.

 

Alan.....

 

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family And I understand your pain. My lad Dan would have been 21 On Boxing Day this year.

He died 17 days after his 18th Birthday

:(

My heart goes out to each and every one of you that's just spilled their guts!

 

Not my worst day but just the last couple of years, managed to get made redundant 3 times in 2 years and lost my 30 yr old brother to a heart attack in March last yr. :mac1:

Prior to that the mother of my wonderful son left with him nearly 5 yrs ago (i still see him every other wkd but have to do 420 round trip to do so!) lost my best mate in a motorbike accident and my 17 yr couisin in a car crash this month 1996 and lost my mum unexpectidly in 1997 then walked in on my 1st wife F**kin someone else on my couch! :mac1:

 

But hey what don't kill US only makes us stronger.........

 

I've just got married to the woman of dreams and i still have my Zed TT even if i am broke as a result! :D

But hey what don't kill US only makes us stronger........

 

Amen that! That is the truist thing I ever heard. You don't quite understand it until something shitty happens to you, then it all becomes clear.

 

Everybody who had the balls to post their bad shit on this thread deserves a :duffer: in my opinion.

 

All the very best to each and every one of you. :bow:

 

Robert.

Small story first give you more of an idea.

1 was married, for 10 years, two kids, nice house, cars and money so so.

Last year i found out wifey had been playing around with a mate of mine for 18 months. Got divorced, lost loads of cash on house to ex. Bought zed, blew it up. still see kids. Rather than have girlfriend, have 3 shag buddies on the go at the same time. After while decide too much hard work if you know what i mean.

So recently got new girlfriend. all good unitl today. :headvswal

 

Get one of those texts, "we need to chat?" from girlfriend, so we have chat, and stu is single again. Various different words exchanged.

Feed dog, drive to work. get snotty text of now ex girlfriend. Ruin my morning....

 

Whilst driving to next job, pop into builders merchants and by some brick cleaner acid. put in van, pop to tescos. Come out and some twat has hit my vans rear light cluster, and driven off. OH WHAT A JOY!!!

 

Get home to find the dog has been scoffing in the fooking bin, and choked up some chicken drumsticks all over the carpet, go to the van to get some gloves ( as i dont like holding dog puke!! only to find the brick cleaner has leaked all over my tools and the vapours nearly knocked me out.

 

I have decided this.

girlfriends are better than wives, as they dont cost as much

shag buddies are better than girlfriends as they dont want flowers to say thanks.

Cats are better than dogs, at least their puke is smaller

water is far less harmfull as brick cleaner

and as for f***ers not leaving details after they hit someone, im going to hunt them down, and cut their bonnet off with a 14" petrol cutter.

 

Im now on the STELLA.

 

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggghhhhhh

a very similar thing, apart from the dog puke and the acid, happened to me about 6 years ago, except i kicked the living s**t out of my ex's boyfriend, but let me tell you mate it does get better with time, you can drink loads, and you'll loose loads of weight cos of the stress. :hyper: :duffer: :D

A big pat on the back to all of you who have shared some very personal and truly devastating stories, I commend you all.

 

It's a cliché but true, time is a great healer and when I've been at my lowest I've had to tell myself that yes there are difficult times ahead but they WILL get easier.

 

Watching my father die 3 years ago while holding his hand was the hardest thing I've had to contend with. I've come out of it though as a much better person and am so glad I was there to say goodbye as most people never get that chance.

its not just you lads, im not in such a great place myself atm following a legal seperation, we dont have easy divorce over here, dont want to go into to much detail

married 30 years, totally faithful, first 17 years at home raising 5 kids(on the social) when youngest started school retrained fast forward to now, my own business, a valuable commercial premises, 5 well educated hardworking kids, and following the court case in danger of losing everything, its like being in a maze, no matter which way i turn there seems to be no way out,

on a funny note my z was mentioned as being one of my assets :D

 

My My wifes put a value of £30K on my Zeds :rofl: :rofl: and one of them needs a new bumper, headlight, healight carrier, repair section N/S inner wing, N/S wing and front bonet.

 

I'm sure things can only get better, once I've got through the worst. To be honest they counld get much worse, but until things are more resolved and I can plan what I'm doing. Then getting up in the morning isn't going to be easy.

 

Hey I've got ace kids keeping me up beat most of the time and this thread has cheered me up. Hearing Bigmincey's story about loosing his son certainly put things into perspective.

 

Cheers Guys this is why I love you all. Generally your a great bunch of people.