So i've been seeing this girl for 3 months to the day, we never get to see each other, its always me makes the first move, etc.

 

To put it shortly, it ain't working and last week when she had a male friend stay overnight at hers and didn't tell me he was staying was the final straw.

 

Skyline Dave's already met her at the torque power party the other week so he knows she's a lovely gal but as a couple we just don't work.

 

So i've been trying to go and see her all week to have a proper talk with her and say i want to go back to just friends again cause i still care about her and we were best mates before that for 6 months.

 

Last thing i want to do is hurt the poor gal but every time i try to go see her she's always busy and now it's the last shopping day before christmas and either i have to buy her something stupidly expensive as her bf then dump her over the christmas/new year period or i buy her something small when i've built up what i was buying her so much and she'll hate me.

 

Either way i'm screwed :headvswal

**** it m8 if my gf had a fella to stay over night and didnt tell me thatd be the end of that, and him :P

I've been an amateur marriage councellor for years and my advice is:

 

1, Get pissed.

2, Forget about your problems and shag her.

3, Get pissed.

4, Forget about the present.

5, Get pissed.

6, Shag someone else.

7, All sorted for a Happy New Year!

 

:rofl:

**** it m8 if my gf had a fella to stay over night and didnt tell me thatd be the end of that, and him :P

Too right. Plus, if you play your cards right, break up sex is great... :wack: ;)

sounds to me like she aint interested and may be thinking the same

 

ditch the bitch and get smashed

sounds to me like she aint interested and may be thinking the same

 

ditch the bitch and get smashed

 

Now me thinks this man knows what its about

if you want my two pence worth just tell her the truth ! its the best way otherwise you will both be hurt in the long run ! its good to talk ring her telll her you really need to talk !! hth , merry xmas doode !

if a girl genuinely likes a guy she will never be "too busy" to see him full stop.

you aint gonna hurt the "poor girl" did she not think you'd be hurt when you found out a male "friend" stayed over and you could imagine them getting up to allsorts? i doubt it so why should you. women think differently and she knows what she's playing by the sound of it so move on buddy.

tip:use the womans frame when dating and you'll always be 2 steps infront

I've been an amateur marriage councellor for years and my advice is:

 

1, Get pissed.

2, Forget about your problems and shag her.

3, Get pissed.

4, Forget about the present.

5, Get pissed.

6, Shag someone else.

7, All sorted for a Happy New Year!

 

:rofl:

 

LOL

 

If your unhappy then it is best to end it now. Why waste time?

look its xmas, buy her a mates type of pressie and move on.

 

shes not gona wory about yoou in a months time, just get on with it and move on.

Arrrrgggghhhhhh Shite bunny. :( Have a hug mate. You have go talk to her even if it means siting in your Zed outside her place till you see her arriving at home.

 

You're a good bloke and you've been a great mate to me. If you want her then go sort it, if you think it's not gonna work out then sorry mate but still talk to her you know what I mean.

 

All the best mate and big big hugs :)

ah sh!t Nick sorry to hear youre having troubles. youre right she's a lovely girl, and a good laugh too. if i was in your shoes:

 

if my g/f had a male friend staying over i would be furious! nobody knows the reason she didnt tell you - maybe it was innocent and she thought you'd be suspicious, maybe it wasnt innocent and for obvious reasons she didn't tell you.

if youre considering just being friends then i'll have to agree with you and say that's the best thing to do. but its better if it comes from you and if you do it off your own back - it makes it much easier being in control and facing up to a tough decision beforehand.

just do what you feel is best mate. pm me if you want a chat buddy.

Sorry to hear this mate.

 

I'd say ditch her too.

 

'You can't hurry love', as Phil Collins said. The right girl will come along but you can't make it happen.

To put it shortly, it ain't working and last week when she had a male friend stay overnight at hers and didn't tell me he was staying was the final straw.

 

In my opinion if you don't trust her enough to have a mate over then she aint the right girl. Trust in a relationship is everything.

 

From what you have said it obviously isn't working so the best thing is to try and end it in a nice way. Stay friends and enjoy the festivities.

 

Darrell

Cheers guys, sorry i didn't reply earlier been out all afternoon after finding both my rear tyres were bald so had to fork out another 140 on top of everything else for a new set of hancooks :(

 

Well i made a decision that i'd give her 4 weeks but tell her how it stands with me.

 

If she doesn't want to stay with me then i'll find out, if she does then she'll get her ass in line if she doesn't want to lose me.

 

In the meantime i'm going to get smashed anyway lol :rofl:

so you are wimping out and letting her make the decision, you obviusely aint happy so just tel it its over and stop messing the poor girl about

 

sorry for being harsh but i have been on the receiving end of unwantedness and it aint nice, just do the right thing bud

mate

Bonk it and bin it

then enjoy christmas

i wouldnt bother even trying to talk to her just fook her off, she aint interested by the sound of it so wouldnt be interested in what you have to say. And whats this bit about you dont want to hurt her? Thats rubbish its hurting you, right? does she care, no! So why bother wasting your breath and trying to hang on to something that obviously isnt there, all your doing is putting off the inevatable and trying to save yourself from pain by giving her another 4 weeks in the hope she comes around to your way of thinking, and says the words you want to hear, it wont happen, i think your being blinded by love mate, you think she's a nice girl coz thats what you want to think but in reality she aint being nice by hurting you. Move on mate dont bother with her. Good luck with what ever you decide only you can make that choice no offence but i think you know the answer to your question deep down but your scared to let go and dont want to addmit it to yourself :) I dont know you but you sound like a nice easy going guy, no good mate she knows this and is walking all over you, knowing your be hanging on no matter what she does you will put up with it, women dont like men they can walk all over, thats not an insult by the way its just the way you are, she wrong one for you, she too strong willed and you will keep getting hurt by her, sorry mate.

Cheers lads, well i haven't got much chance to talk to her till after christmas is over, she's gone to stay at her mate's fro her wedding tomorrow then christmas day she'll have her ex and family round for the kids so i've got to wait till after then to talk to her.

 

I don't want to dump her via text message, nobody deserves that it's just getting to talk to her when she's on her own that's the problem. I saw her briefly for 10 mins today but the kids were there.

 

I'm not copping out just know she has alot on her plate at the moment and i don't think she knows she's about to lose me.

Two tips Nickel-ar$e,

ONE.Dont go out with Dwarfs.

TWO. Live by the five F's in life=

Find em.

Follow em.

Feel em.

Fook em.

Forget em. :dance: :dance: :dance: