Ever had to make a decision that you know is the right thing to do but find really hard to do so?? Well tonight i did it and said goodbye to my 11yr old son as he's moved out to go and live with his mother after she walked out on him 4 years ago, probably the hardest decision of mine to date but needed to be done.

im sure uv done whats best

 

however....must be incredibly tough tho.

hope you have great access rights and a decent relationship with his mum.

 

nick

Ever had to make a decision that you know is the right thing to do but find really hard to do so?? Well tonight i did it and said goodbye to my 11yr old son as he's moved out to go and live with his mother after she walked out on him 4 years ago, probably the hardest decision of mine to date but needed to be done.

 

 

My mum (belss her soul) always used to say 'Things happen for a reason' :)

Maybe you're right, its something that had to be done ... always hard in the begining - but hopefully that bond between father n son will over come anything and will always be just as strong!!

 

Chin up suga! At least you know where he is and he's safe! x :)

im sure uv done whats best

 

however....must be incredibly tough tho.

hope you have great access rights and a decent relationship with his mum.

 

nick

ditto.

i don't have children myself but would be gutted if i was in your situation.

my gf's kids are having a hard time adapting since she moved out from his after 10 years but they're getting used to it after the first month.

 

It's more than just a tricky decision you had to make matey but i'm sure you know what you're doing.

 

Hope everything works out

 

Nick

Thanks all.

Hope it was the right decision, but i will be here for him incase he doe's decide to come back home.

Well decisions don't get any easier have just broke up the the ex after 3.1/2 yrs and am now waiting for her to move out. Is'nt life just great.

Well decisions don't get any easier have just broke up the the ex after 3.1/2 yrs and am now waiting for her to move out. Is'nt life just great.

 

Crap matey, i'm sorry to hear that. Always bad when it happens at christmas as well :(

 

Hope everything sorts itself out soon,

 

Nick

cheers bud. Think it could be time to move on though, off to see estate agents and get house up or sale then sunny spain here i come :dance: .

cheers bud. Think it could be time to move on though, off to see estate agents and get house up or sale then sunny spain here i come :dance: .

 

Was talking about Valencia tonight and saying i need to go again. Maybe see you out there :D

You never know bud you may well do.

cheers bud. Think it could be time to move on though, off to see estate agents and get house up or sale then sunny spain here i come :dance: .

 

now that will be hard decision to make, emagrating and leaving your son behind. Dont know if i could do it easy i remember it was bad enough when i had to leave the family home and see my kids looking out the window at me crying, hardest thing i ever done was having to turn around and walk down the road, im sure my son blames me and holds that against me to this day. Not a decision i could make lightly. But good luck bud hope it all works out for you

Was talking about Valencia tonight and saying i need to go again. Maybe see you out there :D

 

my sister just moved back from Valencia, she actually lived just outside in a place called Chiva, lovely city Valencia