As most of you know i split up with my wife a few months ago, anyway i'm trying to move on and enjoy my life a bit more

 

So over the last week ive had a couple of "encounters" LOL with a couple of women :shifty: anyway one of them after seeing her twice has told me she loves me :no: that was a passion killer i tells ya.

 

Now shes a lovely woman but she's not the usual type i would go for if you know what i mean? my "ex" is an extremely good looking sexy woman and this woman well is not so now i feel really really bad and i dont know what to do.

 

I dont want to just come out with it as she has gone through a bad time so i need to come up with something that is as kind as possible.

 

I know i'm a dick and i know i shouldnt have but its too late for that.

 

Mike

Just need to be honest with her mate, no point in leading her on. It'll only end badly, otherwise.

Just need to be honest with her mate, no point in leading her on. It'll only end badly, otherwise.

 

i agree with this also;

 

plus u dont wanna b in a situation, so u might as well get out b4 it gets complicated further.

Id say something like at the moment in your life your finding it hard to commit your feelings to someone after what has happened to you. She should understand :)

Sorry to say you got to be hard Mike, otherwise it will string on and make it worse for her.

You could do what my girlfriend of 7 years did to me and text " There is no more us"

Not good!

 

Best of luck mate

 

Allan

problem being with both of you's just having gone through a bad time you's will pour your heart out to one anohter without realising that you's have done it, she may have no one to cry to about her probs and she feels you have really connected and that she loves you

 

i would nip it in the bud straight away, tell her its too soon for comitment but if she wants friendship then that is fine, thats if you want to be friends lol

I Have to agree dude. End of the day surely all you were looking for was a way to blow of some steam, im sure she knows where you were at situation wise and should understand if you want to throw the anchors out!

Besides who cares, just don't call her! :)

Tell her its Not her but it you and athough you need to let her go your love will never die:wub:

THEN hide your fookin rabbits

:ninja::2guns:

How about telling her that your boyfriend doesn't approve of her? Should work!!

How about telling her that your boyfriend doesn't approve of her? Should work!!

 

LMAO thats funny.

 

Some good advice cheers guys, think i'm going to go with a mixture of both honest and a small white lie to make her feel good about herself as i really dont want to upset her too much as she's been through alot just over a year ago!!

 

I agree with you Stella it was kind of a pouring of hearts which i really shouldnt have done.

 

Wish me luck guys

 

Mike

Dude there's no easy way of dealing with situation but the best thing is to be honest with yourself and to her and the rest will follow....Good luck though!!!