Just a little steam to let off :blush:

 

Cut a long story short I got my ex tickets to see Jason derulo in concert I got them for her crimbo to go with me today,

Message on Facebook this morn saying she can't go her son is ill sounds like a good excuse didn't even have the decency to call me the harder I try the more I get kicked in the teeth or is it just me

Sorry guys

Mate, I can tell you still have feelings for her but its better you move on. All the emotional energy you are putting in to try win her back is draining you... With time it will get easier..and also with most women...make them want you by avoiding them...either way you have nothing to lose...but everything to gain...Find yourself again.

Sorry to hear dude...but perhaps she just wants to be alone? FB is just as much a place to 'vent' as it is to socialise...maybe?

 

Give her a bit of space and see how it goes?

 

Hope all turns out ok mate.

Don't chase her replace her :gun_bandana:

 

You may love her still but it may be time to move on. Good luck mate with whatever path you choose.

As the saying goes "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen." I used to think this was a load of *****cks, but it is true in so many relationships. You know you've got something special when you don't have to play that fooking game though. The longer you try with her, the less time you'll have to look for that special someone, who will make you feel like you should. As the others have said, you need time out to gather your thoughts. You can't make good decisions when you're still thinking about her. I've been there and looking back, I was a fool.

If you truly want her back, leave her alone, but remain in contact, don't start conversations with her, don't meet someone else (This barely ever works because they end up leaving you alone thinking you've moved on) but start spending a LOT of time with your friends and things. Last time I wanted a girl back, I just started playing football every week, training twice a week, socialising a lot more with friends and people from work etc. I was never at home, because my life was actually pretty awesome. If we hadn't got back together it was still a pretty enjoyable bachelor life so it worked quite well.

is prety shicht.but like the above said try forget about her for a bit get yer boys the gether for a few nights out and see what happens.

iv got back with exes a couple of times and it doesnt matter how you feel about them it never quite the same as it was

hope it turns out good for you though

guys thank you so much for your kind words, yes this is a great emotional drain for me and ashamed to say ben for councelling to but maybe as you all say time to buck up and move on enjoy my own time with friends for a while

im sorry to moan on here only i know i get honest oppinions from people who know what there talking about

 

once again thanks

 

dewi

guys thank you so much for your kind words, yes this is a great emotional drain for me and ashamed to say ben for councelling to but maybe as you all say time to buck up and move on enjoy my own time with friends for a while

im sorry to moan on here only i know i get honest oppinions from people who know what there talking about

 

once again thanks

 

dewi

 

You should never feel ashamed about going for counselling buddy. You have realised you need help and have been emotionally intelligent enough to seek some help. Do what you need to do to help you through an obviously upsetting time for you.

As said, and as you've probably realised spending quality time with your friends and rediscovering your old self will all help the healing process. It's far too easy to just say keep your chin up/man up etc.

By seeking help and trying to sort yourself out you are doing exactly that, i.e. manning up.

Now phone your mates and go and sink a few cheeky halves.

 

Daffy.

Hi Dewi,

 

Absolutely never be ashamed to get councelling, it takes balls to ask for help and you've done it.

 

Vijay

No shame in having counselling whatsoever Dewi - a mate of mine had counselling for depression a few years ago due to losing two girlfriends. he's now found a right cracker and got married last year. good luck with it mate I know for a fact you'll come out a winner!!

Thanks again guys very wise and uplifting words

I have just been with friend to Ireland and off to Belfast in may on the motorbikes really looking forward difficult to let go of someone when your close to them but time goes on and there is always someone special out there waiting to be found and who will make yourself feel special

I've been in your situation mate, been in love once in my life and it didn't work out. I'll always love her but you come to realise it wasn't meant to be. You have to look after yourself and realise you have the right to be happy and not have to chase after anyone.